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She has a bf but is with me!

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Question. This chick im sort of seeing lives with her bf, but she is always calling me and ****e. We went out once and have fooled around a bit, nothing serious though. So the question is this.

What are some good places to go or things to do where ya dont have to spend too much money on her? I feel that since im not her bf I should not have to spend very much cash on her. (not that I would anyways even if she was).

Anyone have any suggestions to this, or to even get her to pay once and a while? Thanks

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The gym,go on a walk(bring a blanket if you want to lay down on the grass),if you have a suv you could drop the back seats and fool around. There are a siht load more but those are the ones I recently used.
 

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Awww how cute, you're her little cuddle b1tch.
 

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Originally posted by Shocker
Question. This chick im sort of seeing lives with her bf, but she is always calling me and ****e. We went out once and have fooled around a bit, nothing serious though. So the question is this.

What are some good places to go or things to do where ya dont have to spend too much money on her? I feel that since im not her bf I should not have to spend very much cash on her. (not that I would anyways even if she was).

Anyone have any suggestions to this, or to even get her to pay once and a while? Thanks

Shocker

I've done something like this, execpt the girl was married.

Dude, just treat it like anything else, no diffrent.

Don't try to pressure her to leave her man, just make sure she has a great time when she is with you.

Hell I wouldn't want her to leave anyway, like me, I had her to the point when I can see her l iterarly whenever I wanted, I did what I wanted to do rather it be go out or have sex, and she can go,and she can't argue with me because she's MARRIED. One day she saw me out with another girl and started crying, only for me to remind her that she was married. I told her if she wasn't married, then she could have a legit beef

She ended up getting a divorce, but not because of me (or so she tells me)

I am lucky, she lived about 30 mintues out of town, so we had no problems with her running into her husband... but the few times we knew he was in town and we wanted to see each other, we would go to Hot Springs, which is about 45 mintues away.

If you are doing dirt, never get your home area dirty if someone else can find it.


Regardless if you are her BF or not, you are taking her on a date. And you are ****ing her. Why NOT pay for the date?

that's the most backward ass logic if I have ever seen any.

Now, there were times when she would pay for herself, but most of the time i had no issue paying her way for anything we did.

You have to understand the concept about not paying.

You don't pay on FIRST DATES, because you want to make the girl EARN your respect. I always pay if I ask a woman to go out, but if she asks me to go out she's paying, if not my way as well.

What is there to prove if you are ****ing her?

Like I said, make sure she has a blast, keep it fun and keep other girls, and she will probably be around for a while. I started seeing the married girl about a year and a half ago, and we still mess around off and on now
 

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Re: Re: She has a bf but is with me!

thanks, I really have no problem paying for ****, just dont want to spend a lot. I have just been playing it cool really, she calls me, she txt messages me, she wants to hang out. Anyways, thanks

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Originally posted by backbreaker
I've done something like this, execpt the girl was married.

Dude, just treat it like anything else, no diffrent.

Don't try to pressure her to leave her man, just make sure she has a great time when she is with you.

Hell I wouldn't want her to leave anyway, like me, I had her to the point when I can see her l iterarly whenever I wanted, I did what I wanted to do rather it be go out or have sex, and she can go,and she can't argue with me because she's MARRIED. One day she saw me out with another girl and started crying, only for me to remind her that she was married. I told her if she wasn't married, then she could have a legit beef

She ended up getting a divorce, but not because of me (or so she tells me)

I am lucky, she lived about 30 mintues out of town, so we had no problems with her running into her husband... but the few times we knew he was in town and we wanted to see each other, we would go to Hot Springs, which is about 45 mintues away.

If you are doing dirt, never get your home area dirty if someone else can find it.


Regardless if you are her BF or not, you are taking her on a date. And you are ****ing her. Why NOT pay for the date?

that's the most backward ass logic if I have ever seen any.

Now, there were times when she would pay for herself, but most of the time i had no issue paying her way for anything we did.

You have to understand the concept about not paying.

You don't pay on FIRST DATES, because you want to make the girl EARN your respect. I always pay if I ask a woman to go out, but if she asks me to go out she's paying, if not my way as well.

What is there to prove if you are ****ing her?

Like I said, make sure she has a blast, keep it fun and keep other girls, and she will probably be around for a while. I started seeing the married girl about a year and a half ago, and we still mess around off and on now
 

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These situations NEVER end up good!! Trust me on that one, been there, done that. Whatever you do don't get emotionally attached or your FUVKED!!




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Re: Re: Re: She has a bf but is with me!

Originally posted by Shocker
thanks, I really have no problem paying for ****, just dont want to spend a lot. I have just been playing it cool really, she calls me, she txt messages me, she wants to hang out. Anyways, thanks

Shocker
yes i was/am in your situation. play it cool and know that she cant start shyt with you cause you can pull the "you got a bf" line on her.

the ones with the bf is usually the intiator....feels gud dont it?
listen to PIMP-sicle on this one too....dont get attached or ur ****ed
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: She has a bf but is with me!

Originally posted by ScrewIt
yes i was/am in your situation. play it cool and know that she cant start shyt with you cause you can pull the "you got a bf" line on her.

the ones with the bf is usually the intiator....feels gud dont it?
listen to PIMP-sicle on this one too....dont get attached or ur ****ed
I third the dont get attached sentiment.. I'm still trying to dig my way out of that hole :(.
 

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Re: Re: Re: Re: She has a bf but is with me!

yeah, she pretty much came to me, which I found funny. I wont get attached, I know that but thanks for reinforcing it.

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
yes i was/am in your situation. play it cool and know that she cant start shyt with you cause you can pull the "you got a bf" line on her.

the ones with the bf is usually the intiator....feels gud dont it?
listen to PIMP-sicle on this one too....dont get attached or ur ****ed
 
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