She hangs up on you. Who calls back first?

[thatguy]

She is mad at you due to the conversation over the phone.
After you say something, she hangs up.

Do you:

1) Wait for her to call, however long that may be?
2) Call back immediately to finish expressing your thought?
3) Call back screaming "You're dead, b!tch!"
4) Wait for a while until you are ready to give in and call her to apologize?

I did (1) and will wait indefinitely!

 

[DJ Jeff]

i would either do 1 or 2. I'm the type of person that has to always finish what the hell i'm saying...even if that is telling her off, and if she doesn't pick up, i'll just tell her off on her answering machine, THEN wait for her to call back, haha

 

[DJ Jeff]

what was the convo about by the way?

 

[iqqi]

if that happens to me and i actually give a sh!t about whoever i'm speaking to, i'll usually call back and say "it is very childish and rude to hang up on someone." in my best teacher voice. its very important not to say anything else until they respond to that.

that usually gets me what i want.

which is 1. they calm down 2. they agree (usually silently), and refrain from ending the dispute that way 3. the communication improves if only slightly, with the realization that it is not a war of who wins the argument, but two people trying to reach an understanding.


sometimes they'll hang up on you again right away, but they'll call back when they calm down, and what you said will be in their mind dictating their calm.

 

[thatguy]

Originally posted by DJ Jeff
what was the convo about by the way?

As always she wanted a favor from me. First I explained to her why what she wanted me to do was unreasonable, then I was stupid enough to say "AND BESIDES, I would have to ... do this, this, and this" - basically an inconvenience.

As always she took this the wrong way and said that I should've just said that I didn't want to do this instead of making up the reasons "why." That pissed me off because it wasn't true that i just tried to get out of doing something for her - and once again she was accusing me of something. So I raised my voice and started explaining to her stuff. So, I guess she got mad and hung up.

I don't stand for that shyat. Albeit, I think I might've been a little harsh she shouldn't've hung up on me but resolved it in a correct manner.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

That chick's lame if she get's that bent out of shape over a "favor." NEXT DA BROAD, you don't have to put up with any bullshiat, you should have 3 or 4 other options. Doubting that you were correct for you actions shows that your still transforming form an AFC into a DJ



PIMP

 

[seulaxplaya]

screw that dont call back. look she hung up on you because she obviously doesnt respect you or she is really pissed off. Chicks hang up cuz they want you to call back and admit your wrong. If there is anthing going on between you two shell come around and call and if not then next her and get another chick and dont say the same stupid comment u said before

 

[davelmn2003]

Put that b!tch in her place, now! (How? I don't know)

Actually. Don't call back. You'll look weak if she doesn't pick it up or if she hangs up on you a second time! Don't leave messages either. She and her friends will have many laughs at your expense if you leave messages (especially stupid ones--like angry screams).

 

[drixsa]

try to never have arguments over the phone

take a couple days off and meet her in person, in her room whatever

make a quick call if necess. and tell her you want to stop by

consider NEXT'ing if it doesnt go well
or if she hangs up on you again

 

[Starman]

I agree with the others..if you call her back..you are pretty much giving her a free pass to act however way she wants with you and treat you like a door mat

 

[netman]

Oh hell nah!!! #1 would be my choice if that happened to me. I would let her vent to herself indefinitely until she finally realizes what she did was childish and uncalled for. Then when she calls back, don't flip out on her. Be calm and act like it didn't bother you that it took so long for her to call you back. She'll be more pissed that it didn't bother you, and you'll have the upper hand.

 

[Knicknack]

let us know how this turns out

 

[Quarters]

Yup...she really sounds childish. Go with 1)...if she doesn't realize it by herself...then screw her. This'll be arranged sooner or later.

My two cents.

 

[\m/]

definetly 1

 

[penkitten]

please tell me you seriously did not consider returning the call after she hung up on you like that. she disrespected you by thinking she could get petty over a favor that did not go her way and was angry and hung up. don't disrespect yourself by calling her back. some people just have to learn and if you call them back it enables their learning process.
glad you didnt call her back. hopefully next time you wont even wonder if you did the wrong thing.

 

[Player_Supreme]

She is the one who hung up why would you symp out by calling her ass back?

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