"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she had a 3-sum, then wanted a relationship

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Sounds more like a sh*t test to me. She probably wanted to provoke you and force your hand.

I'd say if you're not comfortable with that NEXT her, otherwise just pursue her like you normally would.

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My question, when a girl tells you she has a 3-sum without you, and she continues to talk to you, is that friend zone?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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On Point said:
Sounds more like a sh*t test to me. She probably wanted to provoke you and force your hand.

I'd say if you're not comfortable with that NEXT her, otherwise just pursue her like you normally would.
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Buddy, thats not a sh!t test... that's asking to be smacked by your man. lol a girl would never even dare say somethin like that to me
 
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"Secret Society" my eye! I paid way too much attention to her and when she was all primed and ready she got her lil pvssy slammed. Yeah I might have judged her but I'm not about banging hos with herpes and other nasty **** yknow? I like my girls clean and that kind of behavior is just asking for a disease. I might be cool with it if she were to show me a STD test but so far I don't think that's even gonna be an issue. It's a long distance thing so if she ever gets her sh1t together and wants to get my **** she's gonna have to work for it. Otherwise I really don't give a fvck. Keep those plates spinnin yknow?

O and btw, Internet Seduction ftl.
 
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