"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She got upset when I hit onther girls

Ice_Berg_1

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I made a post last week about a girl who says that we're just friends. I do like her alot but I still persue other options, so anyway I went against what most of you said which was to next her because she is actually an awesome chick and makes better company than alot of my guy friends. So this weekend we went out to a club together, I figured since we're "just friends" there's no reason why I shouldn't try picking up other girls and I proceeded to use my "friend" as a wingwoman without her even knowing it. As we all know arriving at club with females gives you status in the eyes of other women. So anyway, my friend got so mad that I was hitting on other girls that she almost left me there, we were pretty drunk at the time and she wouldn't admit that that was the reason she was upset but it clearly bothered her. The next day she acted noemal and nothing was mentioned of the night before, so I'm wondering if I should call her out on this, because I'm actually surprised at her reaction and wondering if I'm setting myself up for future problems by keeping quiet and not talking to her about this.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jariel

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No, don't bring it up! Just continue hitting on more women in front of her and if it bothers her, she will come around.
 

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you got her right where you want her homey.... ramp it up... keep doing your thing.
 

Tazman

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Ditto.............(as if I would know).:D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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