"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She got upset when I hit onther girls

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I made a post last week about a girl who says that we're just friends. I do like her alot but I still persue other options, so anyway I went against what most of you said which was to next her because she is actually an awesome chick and makes better company than alot of my guy friends. So this weekend we went out to a club together, I figured since we're "just friends" there's no reason why I shouldn't try picking up other girls and I proceeded to use my "friend" as a wingwoman without her even knowing it. As we all know arriving at club with females gives you status in the eyes of other women. So anyway, my friend got so mad that I was hitting on other girls that she almost left me there, we were pretty drunk at the time and she wouldn't admit that that was the reason she was upset but it clearly bothered her. The next day she acted noemal and nothing was mentioned of the night before, so I'm wondering if I should call her out on this, because I'm actually surprised at her reaction and wondering if I'm setting myself up for future problems by keeping quiet and not talking to her about this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No, don't bring it up! Just continue hitting on more women in front of her and if it bothers her, she will come around.
 
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you got her right where you want her homey.... ramp it up... keep doing your thing.
 
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Ditto.............(as if I would know).:D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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