"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She got pissed lol

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I teased her too fuking much n now she's pissed at me lol. Maybe one of the reason she got pissed is because I teased her when we were chatting, in which fun teasing could not be expressed n she might have taken it as an insult. I did send her a msg back saying it was a joke but she still seem pissed because she hasn't written anything back hehe. Wat would u guys do in this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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**** test. Don't give in anymore than you already have by telling her it was a joke. Act like you don't care.
 

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Idkmyname said:
**** test. Don't give in anymore than you already have by telling her it was a joke. Act like you don't care.
ahem, quit overanalyzing and thinking everything is a dam test.. look girls are human, their more like us guys than you think. If somebody teases you too much, you might get pissed too.

Then if you act like you don't care you'll just seem like a heartless ashole.

Just be normal, funny, confident, charming. you don't always have to tease her to be playful. She got pissed because you may have teased in a way that wasn't funny to her and she took it seriously. It's ok to tell her you didn't mean it in a bad way and that ur an idiot for saying that. She's human so treat her as such.

Remember be a man, not an ass.
 
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