"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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she got back with her ex

jmeh13

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wow do i feel like a little shiit

Tried not to put her up on a pedestal and all but thats where i think i went wrong.

I feel that i played to laid back and didnt pursue like you should when you really have feelings for someone. I dont even know this game anymore! I have been able to get any girl but when it comes to the one i want more then all I feel i have ****ed it up.

probably going to try and go run through a whole bunch of girls to try and get my mind of her..... but i dunno should i forget about her or keep on trying????
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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Trying more will only drive her farther away.

Time and distance and no contact is the only thing that can possibly give you a future chance.

She has made her decision.

Get with other chicks and perhaps she will get the news of this in one way or another and begin to think about the both of you and the time you had together which could plant the seeds of longing to be back with you.

Don't hold your breath for this though as she has to get tired of the other guy first.
 

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Take some time to enjoy life while you're not tied down.

-Go On Vacation

-Nail other chicks

-Go white water rafting
 

iqqi

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^^^^^^^^^^Haha, I like how two were general, and the other was completely specific.

I know what YOU want to do, ewh!

The comedy of sosuave, I never get tired of it.

edit: BTW, I agree.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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jmeh13 said:
probably going to try and go run through a whole bunch of girls to try and get my mind of her..... but i dunno should i forget about her or keep on trying????
Whatever you do, don't keep trying. I can't stress that enough, it will only serve to push her away and keep you down like an anchor.

Run through a whole bunch of girls. Heck even if it doesn't work, its still fun.

More importantly, I know you feel like a sack of sh1t right now, but don't worry about that, it all gets better with time. The quicker you move on, the quicker you'll be feelin all giddy about an even better piece of azz. Think of how good a fresh piece of meat will feel warming up your kawk, I love the feelling of new pvssy on my kawk. Don't you?

So quit pining over that old boring used dried up pvssy and get some new fangled pvssy that is craving some jmeh kawk.
 
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