"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wow do i feel like a little shiit

Tried not to put her up on a pedestal and all but thats where i think i went wrong.

I feel that i played to laid back and didnt pursue like you should when you really have feelings for someone. I dont even know this game anymore! I have been able to get any girl but when it comes to the one i want more then all I feel i have ****ed it up.

probably going to try and go run through a whole bunch of girls to try and get my mind of her..... but i dunno should i forget about her or keep on trying????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trying more will only drive her farther away.

Time and distance and no contact is the only thing that can possibly give you a future chance.

She has made her decision.

Get with other chicks and perhaps she will get the news of this in one way or another and begin to think about the both of you and the time you had together which could plant the seeds of longing to be back with you.

Don't hold your breath for this though as she has to get tired of the other guy first.
 
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Take some time to enjoy life while you're not tied down.

-Go On Vacation

-Nail other chicks

-Go white water rafting
 
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^^^^^^^^^^Haha, I like how two were general, and the other was completely specific.

I know what YOU want to do, ewh!

The comedy of sosuave, I never get tired of it.

edit: BTW, I agree.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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jmeh13 said:
probably going to try and go run through a whole bunch of girls to try and get my mind of her..... but i dunno should i forget about her or keep on trying????
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Whatever you do, don't keep trying. I can't stress that enough, it will only serve to push her away and keep you down like an anchor.

Run through a whole bunch of girls. Heck even if it doesn't work, its still fun.

More importantly, I know you feel like a sack of sh1t right now, but don't worry about that, it all gets better with time. The quicker you move on, the quicker you'll be feelin all giddy about an even better piece of azz. Think of how good a fresh piece of meat will feel warming up your kawk, I love the feelling of new pvssy on my kawk. Don't you?

So quit pining over that old boring used dried up pvssy and get some new fangled pvssy that is craving some jmeh kawk.
 
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