She Ghosted Me.. Then Came Back!

[EyeOnThePrize]

I don't know man... What about self respect?

Also in this current Covid environment, who knows what disease she could bring to my doorstep.. Including Covid

She disappears again for a week, then comes over to fuk me, after riding 3-4 other diks. Doubt I want to play with my health like that.

Eh most sluts will pick one diick they really enjoy and fuuck that guy til they're bored of it or he tells her to fuuck off. Only the biggest gutter sluts will take diicks left and right every day from randos. Sure if you're worried about diseases and don't want to use condoms you can become a monk I guess.

I still hold the sluts that come by to a standard. If they can't meet that standard(polite, non confrontational, clean, smells fresh, good company) I give them a couple warnings then tell them to gtfo. I've even flown girls across the country to come hang out for a few weeks then changed their return ticket to the next day after they stepped out of line. Imo that's maintaining my self respect. It's not something that surprises me when they step out of line, it's their nature.

The dumber a girl is the bigger the sluut she usually is, which means zero thought should go into whether she's playing games. She's just being a thot, living on impulse, chasing whatever feels good. Her desires are nothing to identify with, and she is nothing to catch or hold on to. You did things right except I sense you're identifying with her split attention.

 

[derby1]

honestly reading this just makes me pity them & their behaviour. I had one who used to message and go into full on queries about my daughter, like beauty stuff she likes etc, you couldnt get more "wife vibes" interest........

it was purely to check i fancied her, she ghosted me as soon as i asked her out...

LOL

 

[Lookatu]

Guys have you not noticed how fukin horny chicks are right now? 4 months ago you would barley get a nude pic off a chick.. In this current environment girls are horny as fuk.

Also I encouraged the slvt out of her.. Tons of sexting her, to the point she would leave the conversation to have a play.

Also please don't get so caught up with my description of her being an 8.. Attraction is somewhat subjective.

To me she was hot.. To YOU she may only me be a 7

Ok cool, where around do you live and what age bracket are we talking about? Because gals around where I'm at I guess are a bit more conservative. I mean deep down, I know they are probably bored as hell being lock down and are indeed going crazy but they approach it a bit different.

 

[soulforge]

Ok cool, where around do you live and what age bracket are we talking about? Because gals around where I'm at I guess are a bit more conservative. I mean deep down, I know they are probably bored as hell being lock down and are indeed going crazy but they approach it a bit different.

You just haven't bumped into the right slvt yet lol

 

[Lookatu]

You just haven't bumped into the right slvt yet lol

Probably better that way. I find better value in more quality gals and less waste of my time.

 

[Suave88]

Just offering some advise to the new guys who chase woman, when she ghosts you!

You need to stop that shyte right now!

I was talking to a solid 8 on WhatsApp.. Matched with her on Bumble.. Had a date arranged for this coming weekend.

This girl was hot.. And boy, she must have sent me upto 20 videos of herself playing with toys, dildos and even a butt plug.

(Four months of isolation really got to this chick)

Anyhow she would text me every morning to say HI and wish me good morning.. Her interest level was extremely high.

I would say 80% of all communication was instigated by her.. Around 7 days ago, I noticed she was online WhatsApp alot.. And it was pretty obvious that she was replying back to my messages, in between a conversation with someone else (most likely a dude)

Then I noticed her messages became a little briefer and sometimes didn't warrant a reply.

Exactly five days ago, I didn't get a morning text message off her, or a message later in the day.

My intuition was right all along, there was probably several other dudes in the picture, and she was slowly ghosting me out for a better option.

I didn't give a fuk and just moved on to other chicks (got one primed for this weekend)

So I didn't text, chase or even message to ask, hey wassup? I know the game these cvnts play, I just moved on.

So this morning out of the blue she messages me from bumble? In the messages two pictures of her in a sexy PVC outfit, looking fine as fuk.

She states.. "Hey I got the sexy pvc outfit we talked about, how come you stopped talking to me"

Some points of interest here.

01. She has me on WhatsApp, then why message me from Bumble? The answer is Dread game.. She wants me to know she is looking hot, and still is using the dating application, so I lose my cool and chase her.

02. I firmly believe she did the ghosting and not me.. We had established a texting routine and she broke away from the script.

03. I haven't heard chit from her in 5 days.. I didn't chase, so she tries to switch it around to, it was me who actually ghosted her. Obvious manipulation tactics.

Anyhow as hot as she is.. I have ignored the shyte out of her & her hamster has gone into overdrive she is sending multiple nude pics of herself.

My guess is, the dude she ghosted me for... Well it didn't work out.

Tempting as it is, to try & get a lay out of her.. I don't think it is worth the drama. She could disappear again in another few days time.

so I will sit back and enjoy watching her hamster spin the fuk out

Sounds like a webcam girl. Have you actually met her?

 

[soulforge]

Sounds like a webcam girl. Have you actually met her?

No she isn't a webcam girl.. She's just a horny chick who came out of a LTR where the sex was non existent.. Then add to that covid isolation for months, and me sexting her.. She was just a horny slvt that's All

 

[backseatjuan]

"Women online are looking for sex." © Backseatjuan 2020

 

[mrgoodstuff]

No she isn't a webcam girl.. She's just a horny chick who came out of a LTR where the sex was non existent.. Then add to that covid isolation for months, and me sexting her.. She was just a horny slvt that's All

Why was the sex non existent?

 

[Suave88]

All the things bolded don't add up for me and will usually give me a red flag. Why would any hot girl send videos of her doing things to a random guy she's never met? She doesn't need validation from anyone and can get sex with 100's of guys that she wanted to easily without it. There's clearly an ulterior motive (sugar daddy, scam, business opportunity, etc) at play here IMO. Plus girls know sharing that stuff can spread like wildfire on the internet. Even gals that are superhorny and close to that time of the month don't just send videos like that. Maybe on Fetlife but not off Bumble, especially if they are above a 7.

Guys just have to look at the big picture and not be so gullible. Not saying you OP specifically but sounds to me like you dodged a bullet.

This type of women do exist, but they don't approach any man like this unless they want money. Typically, if she is a webcam model or and escort, she will act very angelically before her targeted male. Never, she will let him know what she does for a living.

In the other hand, A conservative and moderated girl who is not a webcam model or escort, could brag and behave wild in bed to impress her man.
He has not mentioned a catch, so I cannot anticape what she wants.

 

[soulforge]

Another nude of her sent over & the question, "are you even reading my messages"

She ghosted me.. Now the shoe is on the other foot

 

[Glassguy]

That's great Glassguy!
Because we all joined this forum (not for sound advice, but) because of WWGGD

What I said is sound advice. Too bad you dont understand it.

 

[Glassguy]

Eh if a trashy sluut wants to come by for some good diick I don't stop them. Can't blame them when you fuuck em right. I've had really crazy hoes come by for random lays then call me in the middle of the night wanting a ride from across town or some weird shiit. Like @Glassguy mentioned I don't go out of my way at all for these chicks.

Sluuts are fun because I can fuuck em super hard and push their limits with roughness and degredation. It's like giving a crackhead the biggest purest crack rock they've ever seen. They'll keep coming back for more.

Quit overthinking cheap sluts @soulforge let her come over and blow you, fuuck your brains out, etc. Just never initiate or go further than your front door for her.

As a general rule, I will invite a chick out for a drink ONCE. If she rejects, I eject. If she comes back around there is no 2nd invitation to meet for a drink (which is a date). She is downgraded to coming to my place for that drink or she can get a drink elsewhere with someone else. If she rejects coming to my place then there is no other offer for her. You wouldnt believe the amount of women that will come over or they will say something like "well that is direct and bold of you to assume I will come over to your place" and then they crack and come over anyways. But most men dont get what they want because they dont ask. They arent direct. They allow people to waste their time.

Its hilarious to see some of these dudes on here asking the same chick over and over, letting these chicks waste their time. They show no leadership, no authority, no abundant mindset......because they dont have any. They have no values, self esteem or high standards for how they allow people to treat them.

If many would just understand and fix what I just said in that last paragraph, there would be a lot less confusion on this forum.

 

[backseatjuan]

As a general rule, I will invite a chick out for a drink ONCE. If she rejects, I eject.

Is it a first date? What if she says she don't drink, you call her bs and view it as rejection?

 

[Lookatu]

As a general rule, I will invite a chick out for a drink ONCE. If she rejects, I eject. If she comes back around there is no 2nd invitation to meet for a drink (which is a date). She is downgraded to coming to my place for that drink or she can get a drink elsewhere with someone else. If she rejects coming to my place then there is no other offer for her. You wouldnt believe the amount of women that will come over or they will say something like "well that is direct and bold of you to assume I will come over to your place" and then they crack and come over anyways. But most men dont get what they want because they dont ask. They arent direct. They allow people to waste their time.

Its hilarious to see some of these dudes on here asking the same chick over and over, letting these chicks waste their time. They show no leadership, no authority, no abundant mindset......because they dont have any. They have no values, self esteem or high standards for how they allow people to treat them.

If many would just understand and fix what I just said in that last paragraph, there would be a lot less confusion on this forum.

This is how I do it as well. The worst she can say when you are direct and ask is "no" which is where you started to begin with anyways. And since you don't have any emotional or too much time investment at this point, the "no" doesn't really phase you and you just move on to someone that will be down.

I've had quite a few women say "well that is direct and bold of you". I just tell them I can't help that I'm a confident, charismatic, direct guy. I then flip it and say I'm just speaking my mind and I'm being genuine and that life is too short for games.

Also in my experience, the "no" really means "maybe" half the time like GlassGuy was mentioning in his experiences too.

The biggest lightbulb moment was when I went out with this gal a couple years ago on a first date. After a drink at a bar during the day, I venue changed to hang out at a mall. We decided to drive over there together and I kissed her as soon as she got into my car for awhile, then I asked if she wanted to have sex. Right there she acted all appalled and said definitely no and that she doesn't do that on the first date. Well after warming up to me while we were walking around in the mall, we got a hotel next door. LOL

So I always ask early on and don't even put too much weight on her answer that that moment.

 

[soulforge]

Under normal circumstances.. Even though this slvt ghosted me, but then came back.. I would invite her over and bang the life out of her.

She is definitely plate material.. However with this current climate of Covid19 I feel uneasy about putting my dik inside a girl who maybe taking several diks elsewhere, with her just disappearing like that.

It took me 4 months to get over covid man.. It was hell.. Not putting myself through that again for some ass!

 

[Georgepithyou]

If it were me, she would come to my place for drinks or next her.....

You might as well get an easy lay OP, other then that disregard this girl

 

[sangheilios]

Just LOL at this thread. You are clearly being trolled by some crazy hoe from online and yet here you are posting a thread about her when you have never met her nor are you or will be in the process of ever meeting her.

Women don't do crap like this with random men from the internet that they have never met.

 

[soulforge]

You might as well get an easy lay OP, other then that disregard this girl

I get can get a lay out of her man.. However I can't be fuked with the drama.. Plus I was ill with covid for 4 months.

Don't think putting my dik inside a sloot right now is a good idea lol

 

[Glassguy]

Is it a first date? What if she says she don't drink, you call her bs and view it as rejection?

No. But if I am inviting her out for a drink and she doesnt drink alcohol socially, she can order something else if she wants to accept the offer.

I am not hinging my plans based on her decision, rather inviting her to come along for something I want to do anyways.