returningchamp
Don Juan
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I had about a one month fling with this girl 5 months ago. It ended on pretty good terms and no bridges were burned. I "left her better than she was when i found her."
Last week she randomly calls me. I answer, and she basically says she went back to her ex, but it's not working out, that he asked her if she even loved him anymore, and she couldn't give a straight answer (because she doesn't). That she's looking at apartments, and once she has one lined up - she's leaving him. She says she wants to be single and enjoy life again. No harm there.
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Fast-forward to this monday, she texts me, "I got an apartment! I can move in on the 1st" (that's this friday; tomorrow). We chat a little, and I tell her i'll come see it on saturday after she gets off work at noon.
Everything's cool so far, until 11:30pm last night...
Now before i tell this story - i want to make it clear that BB is one of her orbitors. In fact - he's her main orbitor, and he buys her things (shoes, food,, etc.) I believe she's fvcked him a few times, but do not know for sure. It's obvious being around them - that he likes her a lot more than she likes him.
Now... on with the story... 11:30PM
HER: "Wish you would come here... At [Bar I don't like]"
ME: "I can't tonight, busy right now. Let's grab a drink after you get off work tomorrow night at [Bar I like.]"
HER: "I can't sorrrrrryy"
ME: "It's cool, i go out with a bunch of people from work on thursdays for happy hour; i thought you'd like to meet them. No biggie."
HER: "I would, it's the end of the month though, so i have to work 14 hour tomorrow."
Thought that was the end of the convo...
About midnight
HER: "I really needed you tonight out of all nights."
HER: "Thanks for being here for me."
HER: "pleeeeeasssseeee!"
ME: "If you truthfully need to see me that bad - you can some stop over. The bar you're at is 10 minutes down the road."
HER: "Ok, but im with BB (her orbitor)! But i need a hug from you though! Really bad! You have no idea!"
HER: "Don't know what to say to make you realize!"
HER: "But i get it!"
HER: "I made movements to get past everything with him tonight. I told him. I need you here, but i guess you can't"
HER: "Where are you? I'll meet you."
ME: "I'm at my house. 10 minutes down the road; like i said."
HER: "Thanks a lot, but i can't come, BB is driving and he won't drive me to your house. Whatever then!"
HER: "How about we meet at [FEMALE STRIP CLUB about 30 minutes from my house]" [WTF?]
ME: "No. I think you've forgot who i am... I'm about to lay down."
HER: "Ok, It would make a huge difference if you came. I've begged you in a way tonight."
HER: "This is the time i need you most. I guess i need to understand."
ME: "All you need to understand is that i need to get up in 5 hours. As much as i wouldn't mind your head on my chest and my arms wrapped around you - it'll have to wait. Goodnight."
HER: "You've made me realize sat won't work. You're not you. n9 yrs!" [no idea what "n9 yrs!" means]
WTF? She really just cancelled saturday because i wouldn't come to her on some last minute boohoo stuff?
I'm not going to go running to a girl one a moments notice because she wants me/needs me to. Especially when it doesn't even sound like anything could come of it other than her trying to use me as her therapist.
But **** it! Women be crazy women be!
Last week she randomly calls me. I answer, and she basically says she went back to her ex, but it's not working out, that he asked her if she even loved him anymore, and she couldn't give a straight answer (because she doesn't). That she's looking at apartments, and once she has one lined up - she's leaving him. She says she wants to be single and enjoy life again. No harm there.
---
Fast-forward to this monday, she texts me, "I got an apartment! I can move in on the 1st" (that's this friday; tomorrow). We chat a little, and I tell her i'll come see it on saturday after she gets off work at noon.
Everything's cool so far, until 11:30pm last night...
Now before i tell this story - i want to make it clear that BB is one of her orbitors. In fact - he's her main orbitor, and he buys her things (shoes, food,, etc.) I believe she's fvcked him a few times, but do not know for sure. It's obvious being around them - that he likes her a lot more than she likes him.
Now... on with the story... 11:30PM
HER: "Wish you would come here... At [Bar I don't like]"
ME: "I can't tonight, busy right now. Let's grab a drink after you get off work tomorrow night at [Bar I like.]"
HER: "I can't sorrrrrryy"
ME: "It's cool, i go out with a bunch of people from work on thursdays for happy hour; i thought you'd like to meet them. No biggie."
HER: "I would, it's the end of the month though, so i have to work 14 hour tomorrow."
Thought that was the end of the convo...
About midnight
HER: "I really needed you tonight out of all nights."
HER: "Thanks for being here for me."
HER: "pleeeeeasssseeee!"
ME: "If you truthfully need to see me that bad - you can some stop over. The bar you're at is 10 minutes down the road."
HER: "Ok, but im with BB (her orbitor)! But i need a hug from you though! Really bad! You have no idea!"
HER: "Don't know what to say to make you realize!"
HER: "But i get it!"
HER: "I made movements to get past everything with him tonight. I told him. I need you here, but i guess you can't"
HER: "Where are you? I'll meet you."
ME: "I'm at my house. 10 minutes down the road; like i said."
HER: "Thanks a lot, but i can't come, BB is driving and he won't drive me to your house. Whatever then!"
HER: "How about we meet at [FEMALE STRIP CLUB about 30 minutes from my house]" [WTF?]
ME: "No. I think you've forgot who i am... I'm about to lay down."
HER: "Ok, It would make a huge difference if you came. I've begged you in a way tonight."
HER: "This is the time i need you most. I guess i need to understand."
ME: "All you need to understand is that i need to get up in 5 hours. As much as i wouldn't mind your head on my chest and my arms wrapped around you - it'll have to wait. Goodnight."
HER: "You've made me realize sat won't work. You're not you. n9 yrs!" [no idea what "n9 yrs!" means]
WTF? She really just cancelled saturday because i wouldn't come to her on some last minute boohoo stuff?
I'm not going to go running to a girl one a moments notice because she wants me/needs me to. Especially when it doesn't even sound like anything could come of it other than her trying to use me as her therapist.
But **** it! Women be crazy women be!
