She genuinely wanted a "friend" to keep her company

[teddy]

I honestly never had a girl give me so much attention before, but she's new to the city and her boyfriend of several years lives in a different state. She's lonely, I'm pretty much the only person she knows other than her co-workers and a couple others.

I'm attracted to her, but I messed up the first "date", too much rapport.

I broke it off with her because I don't want to start hearing about her boyfriend or, if they break up, how she's sucking some other dude's ****.

It took a lot to do it, but I did it. Now she hates me.

Should I really be feeling bad about this?

 

[adam225]

No, your interest comes first not hers. Never care about her feeling, she sure wouldn't if it was the other way around.

 

[TheGambino]

Dude you need to get the spinning plates mindset. Youre starting out and developing oneitis for a girl that you never even had something physical with is worse. Is this broad giving you what you want? No? Then cut it off.

Don't be a pvssy when you hook up with her, kino, tease escalate and go for the kiss. If you don't know how to escalate I suggest you to read the whole dj bible.

If this girl is hurting you because she only wants to be friends then youre better off no contact. Be selfish cuz these girls only think about themselfs and you know it cuz girls won't fvck guys who they feel sory for, who are desperate.

So either ask her out, be sexual and make a move or forget about her. Orbiting, friendzone is no option coz she doesn't even have friends to introduce you to..

 

[Starfvcks 64]

she sure wouldn't if it was the other way around.

This is true, and it's important.

You feel bad and she wants you to feel bad but if the situation was reversed she'd be absolutely fine.
Don't let a girl manipulate your emotions.
Easier said than done, but it's something to work on and think about.

 

[teddy]

Dude you need to get the spinning plates mindset. Youre starting out and developing oneitis for a girl that you never even had something physical with is worse. Is this broad giving you what you want? No? Then cut it off.

Don't be a pvssy when you hook up with her, kino, tease escalate and go for the kiss. If you don't know how to escalate I suggest you to read the whole dj bible.

If this girl is hurting you because she only wants to be friends then youre better off no contact. Be selfish cuz these girls only think about themselfs and you know it cuz girls won't fvck guys who they feel sory for, who are desperate.

So either ask her out, be sexual and make a move or forget about her. Orbiting, friendzone is no option coz she doesn't even have friends to introduce you to..

I had no problem teasing her, but I ran into troubles because she wasn't reciprocating any of my kino.

 

[teddy]

This is true, and it's important.

You feel bad and she wants you to feel bad but if the situation was reversed she'd be absolutely fine.
Don't let a girl manipulate your emotions.
Easier said than done, but it's something to work on and think about.

Well, at least logically I did the right thing, even though my emotions are a bit mixed.

 

[TheGambino]

Try to get the mood sexual after some rapport. Make sexual jokes, put youre hand on her shoulders sometimes, look her deep in her eyes. Grabb her hand when you leave the cafe, cinema, KFC whatever and pull her to you when youre at your car or bike and just go for the kiss.

These above are examples of moves, if she doesn't reciprocate and refuses the biggest move the kiss.. then just act like it didn't happen, keep youre date going like it was all ok and cut contact for good unless she reaches out for another hook up, then go for it and try again one more time.

If you make moves like these you'll never be confused by any girl ever again. You'll get your answers the first date.

I suggest you to hook up once again, make moves, if she doesn't give you what you want, ripp her number and move on for good.

 

[teddy]

Try to get the mood sexual after some rapport. Make sexual jokes, put youre hand on her shoulders sometimes, look her deep in her eyes. Grabb her hand when you leave the cafe, cinema, KFC whatever and pull her to you when youre at your car or bike and just go for the kiss.

These above are examples of moves, if she doesn't reciprocate and refuses the biggest move the kiss.. then just act like it didn't happen, keep youre date going like it was all ok and cut contact for good unless she reaches out for another hook up, then go for it and try again one more time.

If you make moves like these you'll never be confused by any girl ever again. You'll get your answers the first date.

I suggest you to hook up once again, make moves, if she doesn't give you what you want, ripp her number and move on for good.

Well, like I said, I already bailed on her. Wouldn't it seem pretty AFC to contact her to hook up again?

 

[VladPatton]

No, don't feel bad. She gets a nice little friend, she gets a new boyfriend (some other dude) and what do you get? You get to go home and jerk off thinking about how she brushed up against you while you were shopping with her for lingerie (once again, the other dude).

Drop em like a hot potato. You did the right thing. Let her put the puṣṣy leash on some other poor beta sap who'll try to bang her for years with no avail.

 

[nismo-4]

I honestly never had a girl give me so much attention before, but she's new to the city and her boyfriend of several years lives in a different state. She's lonely, I'm pretty much the only person she knows other than her co-workers and a couple others.

Yeah, but as a surrogate (pseudo) boyfriend. Make that her girlfriend cuz you ain't f**kin' her!

I'm attracted to her, but I messed up the first "date", too much rapport.

Make moves on the first date, call her bluffs.

I broke it off with her because I don't want to start hearing about her boyfriend or, if they break up, how she's sucking some other dude's ****.

Good job. Put your interest first.

It took a lot to do it, but I did it. Now she hates me.

No sh*t Sherlock. She doesn't have a beta orbiter to control with the promise of sex while getting railed by a Brad Pitt lookalike.

Should I really be feeling bad about this?

F**K NO!!!

Read between the lines. It's 2014. Wake your ass up and understand that if you ain't gettin' laid, you're just a friend (beta orbiter)! Women know where they're designating men.

Case closed.