"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She gave me her number, where to take her? Please Help!

Focused24

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I meet this girl out at a club one night, she was pretty flirty... she knew me from campus im 23 shes 22. We talked she was flirty but of course I didnt get her number or any contact info... I see her again like 2 months later at another club and she again is very flirty but again I didnt really do anything to show interest, by the end of the night she's got some drinks in her and she says you should call me sometime and I get her number ( pretty lame but oh well)

This girl is pretty fine 9 or 10 on the looks but I know nothing about her and I cant really recall a time i've gone out with a chic that I know nothing about really I dont go out on dates or stuff like this much at all... I've told her we would kick it a couple times but I've cancelled both times mainly cause I'm broke and I'm not good at these type of things

We are supposed to meet up somewhere tomorrow night but I have no idea where to go, I dont want to go somewhere lame but then again I'm pretty broke so I'm trying to keep it under 40 bucks... I've done some searching but I dont know what to expect.

Where should I go, Im pretty sure she is feeling me so I'm sure anywhere would be good but I'm not good at meeting new people so I kind of want to go somewhere where there is some other form of entertainment so I dont have to keep everything going. I dont know what she likes or what she does as we really havent had much convo... I dont want to call and ask what she likes to do cause I want to decide where to go...

Someone please map out what would be good to do and what I should do along the way while we are chilling, any tips please... I'm tired or letting these opportunities pass me by... I dont want it to turn into a friendship, its happened to many times!!
 

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care to tell us where your from?

movies are great! u can talk about the movie after? and see how close she gets to you in the movies?
 

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google your city and park events, a bigger town usually has plays and musical acts playing either cheap or free.
 

suavesuave

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coffee are cool for first date
 

slickaz

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coffee + a walk in the park/beach since you NEED to get to know her..you have all the time to talk..also..BEST situation to hook up..

heres what i do when i used to be broke but had a date organized...

go to a good asian shop - get 2 starter dishes packed (pref, prawns/chicken pieces cooked in nice sauces) - approx 15$ (~7$ each)
<<buy about 5 mins before you see her, store in a heat cask>>
go to supermarket - buy a bottle of 6$ red wine + 2 plastic wine glasses(2$)
Best donut shop - box of 6 donuts - ~6$

spend approx 25 - 30$

HIDE ALL THE ABOVE IN YOUR CAR BOOT

take her to a secluded beach = Free!!!
entertainment = You + Clear dark sky + moonlight + millions of stars = Free

take a blanket + some pillows = Free

tell her to close her eyes at the beach,
step out quickly, set up the blanket + pillows with the heat cask in between and hide the donuts behind your pillow.

bring her out, eyes still closed = Surprise!

kick it there, you can talk about so! much..
and if you run out of stuff to say, you can teach her some astronomy..
it doesnt matter if you dont know, i just point out to any star and say its mars coz its got a glint of red..or i tell her some scientific nonsense about how the sounds of waves crashing is proven to reduce stress and increase libido..lol..anything to get her subconsiously feeling romantic..

and then pop out the donuts for dessert..shed be surprised!!

most ppl dont understand that if you eat slowly, your stomach will get full even if you eat smaller amounts of food..and most girls cant eat alot anyway. so 2 plates of starters and 3 donuts (she'll eat 3 coz chix love sugar and choco coated stuff) + red wine = full & horn + secluded beach..PRICELESS...

the amount of ass ive gotten on beachs with that trick...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aragon034

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slickaz said:
coffee + a walk in the park/beach since you NEED to get to know her..you have all the time to talk..also..BEST situation to hook up..

heres what i do when i used to be broke but had a date organized...

go to a good asian shop - get 2 starter dishes packed (pref, prawns/chicken pieces cooked in nice sauces) - approx 15$ (~7$ each)
<<buy about 5 mins before you see her, store in a heat cask>>
go to supermarket - buy a bottle of 6$ red wine + 2 plastic wine glasses(2$)
Best donut shop - box of 6 donuts - ~6$

spend approx 25 - 30$

HIDE ALL THE ABOVE IN YOUR CAR BOOT

take her to a secluded beach = Free!!!
entertainment = You + Clear dark sky + moonlight + millions of stars = Free

take a blanket + some pillows = Free

tell her to close her eyes at the beach,
step out quickly, set up the blanket + pillows with the heat cask in between and hide the donuts behind your pillow.

bring her out, eyes still closed = Surprise!

kick it there, you can talk about so! much..
and if you run out of stuff to say, you can teach her some astronomy..
it doesnt matter if you dont know, i just point out to any star and say its mars coz its got a glint of red..or i tell her some scientific nonsense about how the sounds of waves crashing is proven to reduce stress and increase libido..lol..anything to get her subconsiously feeling romantic..

and then pop out the donuts for dessert..shed be surprised!!

most ppl dont understand that if you eat slowly, your stomach will get full even if you eat smaller amounts of food..and most girls cant eat alot anyway. so 2 plates of starters and 3 donuts (she'll eat 3 coz chix love sugar and choco coated stuff) + red wine = full & horn + secluded beach..PRICELESS...

the amount of ass ive gotten on beachs with that trick...
Very slick, you're living up to your chosen name ;P

IMO this kind of thing doesn't happen often enough, it's a great date that's relatively cheap, and certainly memorable if you pull it off right.

I'd be careful what beach you take her too though, somewhere private, but not secluded. She could pull out a tazer or even mace and ruin your evening.

Seriously, Tazers hurt in the right places, Don't tempt fate :p

on the other hand, if you're starting to get serious with this chick, feel free, like homer said "i've got sand in my underpants."
 

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Get enough drinks in her system so that you can lower her inhibitions just enough so that she invites you in when you take her home
 

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Any where that will cause excitment.
Mini golf
Arcade
Bowling Ally
Pool Hall

Coffee shop
IF you do the coffee shop bring a game
like cards, dominos, or even chess.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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