She Gave me an Expensive Gift, but Did not Let Me Kiss Her

[johnnynh]

Hi,

Friends

First of all, sorry for my English, I am not a native English speaker. I feel a little confused and I would like to hear your advices and opinions, my friends. Regularly, I obtain kiss closes on first days and one night stands, when I feel the HBs are little players or I can manipulate them. Nevertheless, I have a big problem when I meet HBs with more education, social value, etc than the usual HBs I meet. I feel that my game is destined to obtain Kcloses and Fcloses in short time and with one type of HBs. I think you can understand me.

For example, I have met a 25-year, MBA degree, and well-educated HB8. She is always showing a nice smile and looks like the dad’s preferred daughter. On our first date, we went out for drinks, we talked a lot, ****y and funny, deep questions about her life, her hobbies, etc. We went to a karaoke and singed a lot, we got fun. I really like this HB8. She seems like a HB with experience, but no malice. The same day after our first date, she sent me a SMS telling me that she had enjoyed the time with me. Usual when I like a HB, I postponed Kclose for the second or third date.

Our second date was two days after Saint Valentine day. We take a tour on a boat in a park, holding hands all of the time, and she smiling in everything I said. So I feel confident and I go for the Kiss close. I looked at her eyes with a knowing smile, I closed to her to kiss her and she told me not to do this and asked me why I did this. She hugged me nervously and I let the situation in that way. Then, when I took her back to her house, she gave me a gift. It was an expensive perfume I had told her about on our first date.

This gift ended confusing me even more. She did not let me to kiss her, but gave me an expensive gift and sent me SMS for the good times she passed with me. I know I must keep trying until kissing her, but I believe that with only ****y and Funny, Push and Pull and deep questions, is not going to be enough. I would like a lot to read your opinions and advices, my friends.

Johnny

 

[VikingKing]

Just keep giving her more expensive gifts, try harder to prove how much you lover her. Tell her you will do anything you she asks
, at any time, and you are always available.

Always tell her she is beautiful, and how much you love and appreciated her.

 

[johnnynh]

Just keep giving her more expensive gifts, try harder to prove how much you lover her. Tell her you will do anything you she asks
, at any time, and you are always available.

Always tell her she is beautiful, and how much you love and appreciated her.

She gave me the gift, no me, after our second date. Thanks for your opinion.


Anyone else who can give me a good advice, pleease?

 

[SmooveMooves]

The reply you got wasn't "advice".

She's giving you mixed signals right now, but that's cool cause' she gave you an expensive gift. What that means is she thought of you and has invested. That gift was her investment and that's a good sign.

Now I may be wrong but I see it two ways here, either she just wants to be friends and you aren't sure of her intentions, or she wants to take it really slow. But that's cool too, because whether its the former or latter your response should still be the same.

On the next date make your intentions clear, keep up the Kino and steady escalation. Gauge her reactions and try the Kiss one more time. If she rejects without explanation, she's not interested in you the same way you're interested in her. If she does reject you should expect an explanation along the lines of "I wanna take it slow/Not ready/Lets be sure".

In the event you do get an explanation of the sort you go cold and put the ball in her court. After said date, She should setup the next meetup and initiate contact 1st. If she doesn't she's a lost cause and not interested in you the way you are in her. If that happens to be the case then you just make like a basketball pickup game and NEXT.

 

[Tictac]

Play the game. Throw your best up.

See where it goes.

Be indifferent to the outcome.

 

[johnnynh]

Play the game. Throw your best up.

See where it goes.

Be indifferent to the outcome.

Thanks, Tictac, I will try to see where it goes, but what would you do in my case? I feel a little curious.