"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rex Man said:
Absolute bullsh!t, bvbidd. A slutty girl can make you wait for sex just like a.......um, non-slutty girl. I see it all the tim.

That girl that you think is so pure will suck a d!ck in Cancun if she's feeling it. To girls, it's all about the FEELINGS. Likewise, if a slut thinks she can make a boyfriend out of bvbidd, she will make you wait. Meanwhile, Tom and Larry double-stuff her in one night. Believe that.
This is so true. The girl I had one-itis for recently was definitely doing this sh*t behind my back...I just know it. I never got to nail her after multiple dates. Just second base bull****. And, of course, she decides to give me a call today at work and leave a message. The funny thing was that I am so sick of her bull**** and this new girl makes it so freakin' clear how women should be treating me that I don't even want to answer her call.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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some people need the thrill of the chase, some don't. it's simple: not everyones the same.
 

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Play the Game said:
Just look at her ass dude... and ask yourself am i better off nailing that or jerking of next week thinking about her b/c i was a ****ing idiot?

When in doubt, hit it!
LMAO !! :crackup:
 

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Who gives a flying fuck how she acted?

If you are having mental/ethical issues about this, read Aristotle's treatise on friendship and love, and then bang her.

If you don't, you're either gay, or have serious hang-ups.
 

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I'm with comic, gotta love a girl who knows what she wants ;) Also so much fun to play hard to get.
I mean why "pay" for something when you can have it for free.

Give the "Anti-Dump's Machine" series a read
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NickSCFC2000 said:
Proof that EVERYONE wants what they can't have.
How true this is, many years ago I saw a pack of about two hundred sheep in a field full of lush long grass, instead of eating that grass that they were walking on, they tried to push their heads through the fence to eat the grass on the other side, it made me think about myself and other humans, if it is easy to get then you don't want it anymore, this goes for hot babes, jobs, houses, cars, food, and everything else in life. :yes:
 

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If You Know That You Are Not Intressed In Her Then Just End That Topic With Her Cause I Believe That There Is Nothing Wrong.she Is Intressed You Already Have Her In Your Arms So What's Happening To You.i Believe That You Are Not Just In The Mood To Be With Her Cause She Came On The Wrong Time.men Take Your Time To Sovle Your S****t.you've Got The Chance So Why F**k It Up.regret Is A Bad Thing To Think About.tou Have To Play This Game.
 
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jimmyjack said:
If You Know That You Are Not Intressed In Her Then Just End That Topic With Her Cause I Believe That There Is Nothing Wrong.she Is Intressed You Already Have Her In Your Arms So What's Happening To You.i Believe That You Are Not Just In The Mood To Be With Her Cause She Came On The Wrong Time.men Take Your Time To Sovle Your S****t.you've Got The Chance So Why F**k It Up.regret Is A Bad Thing To Think About.tou Have To Play This Game.
Life is way to short to live with regrets, regrets lower your own self esteem and your value to others, a man who enjoys playing golf and fvcking hot babes, will eventually fvck so many more if when he has made up his mind that he wants to play a round of golf on that day, meets a hot babe on his way to the golf club with whom he could easily fvck, though forgets about her and goes to play golf instead, don't let the desire for woman control your life, do what you want to do, never having regrets, and the hottest babes will be swarming around you. :yes:
 

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Bvbidd said:
If she has high interest after just meeting you, she is a slvt.
Cuz obviously you're not a guy any woman would fall in love with at first sight! :yes: I'm quite a woman and far from a slvt. Few men can have me but when I fall, I fall hard! If the guy can't see a diamond fell in his lap - bye! He deserves cut glass! :whistle: I love it when they beg me back. No way Jose :nono: :moon: :kick: :trouble: :kick:
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
How true this is, many years ago I saw a pack of about two hundred sheep in a field full of lush long grass, instead of eating that grass that they were walking on, they tried to push their heads through the fence to eat the grass on the other side, it made me think about myself and other humans, if it is easy to get then you don't want it anymore, this goes for hot babes, jobs, houses, cars, food, and everything else in life. :yes:
Maybe you should stick with sheep cuz if somebody gives me a hot car and a high-class high-payin job (like a role in a TV sit-com) - I'm stickin' with it! Can't nobody tell me it ain't worth a lot! :crazy:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Moonlight said:
Cuz obviously you're not a guy any woman would fall in love with at first sight! :yes: I'm quite a woman and far from a slvt. Few men can have me but when I fall, I fall hard! If the guy can't see a diamond fell in his lap - bye! He deserves cut glass! :whistle: I love it when they beg me back. No way Jose :nono: :moon: :kick: :trouble: :kick:
I've had girls fall for me at first sight before, they just kept it hidden and told they're friends. Then stalked me around for a bit. They never openley ran up to me and made themselves look like a loser for it. That's what this girl is doing, she's giving herself completley away, that's slvtty.
 

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DJorBUST said:
She didn't have a pic up so I asked her for one. She did some modeling in the past and sent me a couple of old modeling photos. The girl kinda looks like Catherine Zeta Jones (small, petite with nice breasts). She would be at least a HB8.
RED FLAG!! if shes a "model", why wouldnt she already have pics up?? nobody just has a dating profile with no pics especially when youre a model...be careful, that "model" might turn out to be like a 80 year old pedifile or something... :nono:
 

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RED FLAG!! [/QUOTE]


Dude, he said he's already met her IRL and she's hot. I can think of LOTS of reasons a non-AW would avoid putting pictures of herself up if she's hot.
 

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Bvbidd said:
I've had girls fall for me at first sight before, they just kept it hidden and told they're friends. Then stalked me around for a bit. They never openley ran up to me and made themselves look like a loser for it. That's what this girl is doing, she's giving herself completley away, that's slvtty.
Right, you had GIRLS! :cheer: No WOMAN would want you. Only slvts and girls understand your type of attitude. :yes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigjohnson said:
Just like every other woman in other words.
If a guy can't tell a diamond from glass who needs him? Eminence and Rex Man are onto something. Those guys know a diamond when they see one. You obviously don't realize that all women are not alike. :cheer: Some are tall, some asre short, some are blond , some are not... Too bad. I suggest you read and learn from them. It might make your johnson big! :crackup:
 

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Moonlight said:
Right, you had GIRLS! :cheer: No WOMAN would want you. Only slvts and girls understand your type of attitude. :yes:
What? My attitude is that I'm turned off by slvts. And then you say only slvts and girls go for that attitude? What? Why are you trying to defend slvts and then insult slvts in the same sentence?

How the hell does that make sense?

BTW - I only just turned 19 I don't expect older women to be into me and I'm fine with that.
 

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BTW - I only just turned 19 I don't expect older women to be into me and I'm fine with that.[/QUOTE]

Sorry. I thought I was communicating with a man. You still have lots to learn. Right now you're in a black and white world. I can't wait until a woman turns you into technicolor jelly. :flowers:
 

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Moonlight said:
You obviously don't realize that all women are not alike.
You obviously have no idea what I realize. I know all women are different and I *also* know that every one of you craves male attention. Thus you love it when the suckers crawl back the same as every other woman loves it.

In other words while you are all distinct people this is one trait that virtually every one of you share. It's not an insult, just an observation.

Shall I draw a diagram for you?

:crackup:
 

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What is up with this site? People complain and complain about not getting laid and how hard they have to work for it.

Then when its handed to you on a silver platter they complain that since they don't have to work for it, they don't want it.

If I won the lottery, I am not stupid enough to give the money back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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