"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She gave her number, then took it back

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Im curious about this one.

Met a girl at the bank, pretty good looking and late 20s. I asked for her number and email. She gave both on separate pieces of paper. Five minutes later she asked for the paper with her number and crossed it out and ripped it up. Still have the email.

Wondering what the thoughts were.

1) She suddenly remembered she had a boyfriend?
2) Number is too personal in 2017?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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marmel75

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Decided she wasn't interested?
 

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Why would you ask for both number an email. Kind of odd. Next time get her number and put it in your phone, and txt her right away just a quick "sup its me" and be on your way
 

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The bottom line is she isn't interested. Her boyfriend/ lover is in first place. She may have liked your attention.

Move on. Don't waste any time with this one.

Case closed.
 
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