"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She fvckin hates me

NSUballer

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CHeck this out. THis girl i met last weekend came over monday night and was tryin to fuk me. I didnt know at the time but lets just say shes been around the block more than a few times. It didnt really feel right that night so i told her i couldnt cuz i had to take a physical the next day.

Anyways here we are 4 days later. Now the b!tchfvckin hates me for some reason, and shes tryin to get wit one of my boys. I know for a fact shes a slut, thats why i didnt hit that. But the problem is now shes all over my boy but she wont fuk him and shes always around when i we hang out.

I really dont understand why she would hate me for not bangin her. Anybody else ever have this problem?

Oh and this girl is maybe a 6.5, and i can get much hotter.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well you rejected her - that pisses some people off. From what you are saying she's a HO that you don't want to hit - so who cares if she hangs around and doesn't like you?
 

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Its just that this b!tch is aggravating the sh!t out me now. Shes always got somthin to say to me even when im not talkin to her and its always somthin stupid like shes tryin to slam me.
 

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Best thing you can do is laugh at her, seriously, when she says something you don't like the key is to pretend it doesn't bother you. She wants to get under your skin for rejecting her so don't give her the satisfaction. Don't take anything she says seriously and literally laugh at her, she'll eventually give up and you can piss her off royally in the process.
 

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go to her 'look doggy dog, dont be mad coz i hurt your game'. rap this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yep - you win the game (let me stress it just a game... so don't get all worked up) by not being bothered by her. Laugh at her - laugh at her situation just like you would some idiot you have never met.
 

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I had a similar issue. This straight up ho also a 6.5 wanted me BAD.

But I DONT wanna do a ho. She must have done 50 guys+

Who knows how many STDS she had.

It just wasnt worth it. BUt my boy did get some head from her.

I didnt even do that, maybe I should have gotten that at least. lol.
 

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Originally posted by NSUballer
Its just that this b!tch is aggravating the sh!t out me now. Shes always got somthin to say to me even when im not talkin to her and its always somthin stupid like shes tryin to slam me.
The anger is in response to the rejection -- she laid herself out for you, exposed herself as it were and was rejected. It may have even happened publicly. This is an insult and humiliation -- doesn't matter that she set herself up for that (most women can be inviting and subtle without being slutty and overt), what counts is that she was rejected and humiliated.

The aggravating behavior is to get your attention under any pretext and by anyt means. She knows how to get into your presense by hanging out with the friend and keep him on a leash.

She's still playing for you dude. I think her game at this point is that she's in denial that you rejected her and will attempt to get you (and confirm her abilities or attractiveness) and then dump you before you reject her. First one to dump wins, and she's looking for a "do-over".

my 2 cents.
 
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