"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She followed me and said hello

Stephen89

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I randomly sent a request to a few women on Instagram

One of them accepted and then to suprise, started following me on Instagram

I do like nice on my Instagram pic

I'm 34, that pic was when I was 31, I do look subtle different however on my Instagram images I do resemble that look

She does look nice, however she doesn't have thousands of followers and I guess humble, grounded, a normal person

She said hello to my suprise to

Is this anything to go by and should I introduce myself or just say "hey, how is your day going"?

What can I say after she said hello? And another said hello followed by my name
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Slowhandluke

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I sense that women in general have gotten .0000000001% nicer... It's strange. Can other people feel it? I think the generation of lonely, single women who are hitting their 40's losing their looks are starting to serve as a warning sign to other women. Also, on reddit dating forums, I don't see as many women saying "age is just a number" any more. It could just be me though.
 
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