"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She finally confessed her love to me..

GolfGuru

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Well, heres my deal. I've been dating a woman for ~6 months.

Things have been great since day one and we are now in an exclusive relationship. I took it easy on expressing my feelings from the get go. She has not told me she loves me either.

Well, Christmas came and I was shocked. She spilled her feeling toward me in the card.

Whats the problem? I did not expect her to do this and now Im feeling guilty -as I should have done the same.

What should I do??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Socialreject

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Nothing...

Thank her for a lovely card...

And then show her a wonderfull time....and make her *** a lot :D

Seriously, if you like that kinda thing about her, then reward her with an evening/night full of passion and chemistry. Unless she's really into poetry (i find not women truly are), then passion, chemistry and awesome sex is going to mean a lot more to her than some letter your write, or some words you speak... feel free to recite some poetry to her after she's lieing on the bed half passed out/panting like a rabbit dog :cool:
 

Alphamale1821

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sing women a song always works wonders to. The only issue is you have to be able to sing lol.
 

bukowski_merit

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women mostly care about what kind of reaction that get out of you...
if she said "i love you" in the card... and you loved her and looked her in the eye, caressed her face and said with confidence "i love you too"

that's better than any present you can give her (besides wild animal sex)
 

Metaphysical

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bukowski_merit said:
women mostly care about what kind of reaction that get out of you...
if she said "i love you" in the card... and you loved her and looked her in the eye, caressed her face and said with confidence "i love you too"

that's better than any present you can give her (besides wild animal sex)
yes, women are about feelings and emotions.

i would not tell her "I LOVE YOU" back, unless this is the woman you want to be with for the rest of your life and want to settle down with her. or unless you want to play her and are using the love card as a way to get money out of her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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