"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She finally confessed her love to me..

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Well, heres my deal. I've been dating a woman for ~6 months.

Things have been great since day one and we are now in an exclusive relationship. I took it easy on expressing my feelings from the get go. She has not told me she loves me either.

Well, Christmas came and I was shocked. She spilled her feeling toward me in the card.

Whats the problem? I did not expect her to do this and now Im feeling guilty -as I should have done the same.

What should I do??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nothing...

Thank her for a lovely card...

And then show her a wonderfull time....and make her *** a lot :D

Seriously, if you like that kinda thing about her, then reward her with an evening/night full of passion and chemistry. Unless she's really into poetry (i find not women truly are), then passion, chemistry and awesome sex is going to mean a lot more to her than some letter your write, or some words you speak... feel free to recite some poetry to her after she's lieing on the bed half passed out/panting like a rabbit dog :cool:
 
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sing women a song always works wonders to. The only issue is you have to be able to sing lol.
 
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women mostly care about what kind of reaction that get out of you...
if she said "i love you" in the card... and you loved her and looked her in the eye, caressed her face and said with confidence "i love you too"

that's better than any present you can give her (besides wild animal sex)
 
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bukowski_merit said:
women mostly care about what kind of reaction that get out of you...
if she said "i love you" in the card... and you loved her and looked her in the eye, caressed her face and said with confidence "i love you too"

that's better than any present you can give her (besides wild animal sex)
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yes, women are about feelings and emotions.

i would not tell her "I LOVE YOU" back, unless this is the woman you want to be with for the rest of your life and want to settle down with her. or unless you want to play her and are using the love card as a way to get money out of her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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