FutureSpartan
Senior Don Juan
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- Mar 17, 2007
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Why do we take a break-up or getting dumped so personally and seriously?
If my gf decided she no longer wanted to be with me,
even if she did something f*cked up like cheat...should I really care anyways unless I was gonna marry her?
I mean, yeah it sux to get dumped/cheated on and I totally understand the typical guy getting upset, but wouldnt an enlightened man realize that its only his ego getting bruised and the end of a relationship opens up the opportunity to new, possibly better relationship(s).
If I got dumped by my gf, in my head I would probably thank her for giving me the opportunity to pursue other attractive women without feeling guilty about it.
This nonchalant attitude may also open the opportunity for FB status with your ex.....she sees that her dumping you left you totally unaffected and now she wonders whether she made the right choice.
Marriage ambitions aside, I just don't see the point in getting emotional over something that, ultimately, was gonna end anyways.
If my gf decided she no longer wanted to be with me,
even if she did something f*cked up like cheat...should I really care anyways unless I was gonna marry her?
I mean, yeah it sux to get dumped/cheated on and I totally understand the typical guy getting upset, but wouldnt an enlightened man realize that its only his ego getting bruised and the end of a relationship opens up the opportunity to new, possibly better relationship(s).
If I got dumped by my gf, in my head I would probably thank her for giving me the opportunity to pursue other attractive women without feeling guilty about it.
This nonchalant attitude may also open the opportunity for FB status with your ex.....she sees that her dumping you left you totally unaffected and now she wonders whether she made the right choice.
Marriage ambitions aside, I just don't see the point in getting emotional over something that, ultimately, was gonna end anyways.