tigermask72
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First time poster, 34 yrs old, good looking guy that gets a lot of girls...but I end up driving them away eventually, way too much of a nice guy. I'm the one that treats them better than anyone ever has...you know the story.
I've been into this girl for a year now, she is 26. We work together, in the military. When she came to my unit last year, she immediately asked about me, she was attracted right away. She found out I was married, and backed off. She already had a boyfriend.
My marriage was on the rocks, and I am now going thru a divorce. She ended up marrying her boyfriend last january. During this time we became really good friends, mainly only at work, but always talking, laughing, flirting, even going to lunch once in a while.
I kept pursuing her and she always blocked my advances. But then I got a girlfriend, and stopped chasing her cold turkey. She started getting jealous, etc and trying to talk to me.
Right now we are both in Iraq. We both knew that coming out here something would happen, as we've talked about this and both admitted as much. We eventually slept together about 10 times, and we both have feelings for each other. She isn't very good at opening up...she has told me it's hard for her to open up, espescially to the people that are most important to her (this was before we slept together.)
She finally let me hit it, but she still wouldn't really kiss me. I know things were getting rocky with her husband, but she still couldn't open up to me.
Finally a couple weeks ago she just grabbed my face and passionately kissed me for the first time really kissing me, even using her tongue.
I felt like she is finally opening up to me.
Things got really bad between her and her husband (he is in California), and she needed time, which was hard for me, but I tried my best to keep my distance.
Any comments are welcome, but every week, every day I find myself wondering what to do with this girl. She always tries to have the power. if she doesn't, she feels way too vulnerable. She always lets me know that she is in the driver's seat with this relationship. And I am trying to enjoy it for this 6 months out here in Iraq. i figure, i wanted her for a year and now i finally get to sleep with her, so should I continue what i am doing, or should i mix things up? At least I leave here having hit it.
Like today, i made her 2 cds of music, but then I wrestled with whether or not to give them to her. I don;t want to feel weak, but I want to stay fresh in her mind.
I must be doing something right to have gotten where I am with her. She is a 10 and could have any guy she wants, i know this. Espescially here with nothing but other horny Marines all around.
She does have a couple guy friends she hangs with from time to time, and it pisses me off, but I know that she and I crossed that line a while ago, and she needs that friend type also...and I know that at night, when it counts, she is with me, not with anyone else.
yes I treat her like a queen...and I am sure she has thought of what life with me could be like...as i have done so with her...
Thru a close friend of mine, I heard she said her husband is smothering her right now and she needs time from him (they have some major fighting going on)...what can i do to not smother her in the same way, but yet be right here for her (but as her man, not as her friend) and not push her away?
I've been into this girl for a year now, she is 26. We work together, in the military. When she came to my unit last year, she immediately asked about me, she was attracted right away. She found out I was married, and backed off. She already had a boyfriend.
My marriage was on the rocks, and I am now going thru a divorce. She ended up marrying her boyfriend last january. During this time we became really good friends, mainly only at work, but always talking, laughing, flirting, even going to lunch once in a while.
I kept pursuing her and she always blocked my advances. But then I got a girlfriend, and stopped chasing her cold turkey. She started getting jealous, etc and trying to talk to me.
Right now we are both in Iraq. We both knew that coming out here something would happen, as we've talked about this and both admitted as much. We eventually slept together about 10 times, and we both have feelings for each other. She isn't very good at opening up...she has told me it's hard for her to open up, espescially to the people that are most important to her (this was before we slept together.)
She finally let me hit it, but she still wouldn't really kiss me. I know things were getting rocky with her husband, but she still couldn't open up to me.
Finally a couple weeks ago she just grabbed my face and passionately kissed me for the first time really kissing me, even using her tongue.
I felt like she is finally opening up to me.
Things got really bad between her and her husband (he is in California), and she needed time, which was hard for me, but I tried my best to keep my distance.
Any comments are welcome, but every week, every day I find myself wondering what to do with this girl. She always tries to have the power. if she doesn't, she feels way too vulnerable. She always lets me know that she is in the driver's seat with this relationship. And I am trying to enjoy it for this 6 months out here in Iraq. i figure, i wanted her for a year and now i finally get to sleep with her, so should I continue what i am doing, or should i mix things up? At least I leave here having hit it.
Like today, i made her 2 cds of music, but then I wrestled with whether or not to give them to her. I don;t want to feel weak, but I want to stay fresh in her mind.
I must be doing something right to have gotten where I am with her. She is a 10 and could have any guy she wants, i know this. Espescially here with nothing but other horny Marines all around.
She does have a couple guy friends she hangs with from time to time, and it pisses me off, but I know that she and I crossed that line a while ago, and she needs that friend type also...and I know that at night, when it counts, she is with me, not with anyone else.
yes I treat her like a queen...and I am sure she has thought of what life with me could be like...as i have done so with her...
Thru a close friend of mine, I heard she said her husband is smothering her right now and she needs time from him (they have some major fighting going on)...what can i do to not smother her in the same way, but yet be right here for her (but as her man, not as her friend) and not push her away?
