"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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she dont wanna date me but dont want me to date others

cablecow15

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ok the girl im focused on right now me and her were talking last night and i asked her straight out why wont u date me she said i dont know i mean i know she likes me we flirt alot she touches me between my legs and every thing but she said she dosent know whats wrong with her she said when im dating another girl she cant stand it but when im single she dosent like me anymore im kinda confused to . i belive her cause weve know eachother for a while and i trust her but does anyone have some ideas as to why shes attracted to me when im not single and not when im not . i just want some more oponions before i start acting

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Harp

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cablecow15 said:
ok the girl im focused on right now me and her were talking last night and i asked her straight out why wont u date me she said i dont know i mean i know she likes me we flirt alot she touches me between my legs and every thing but she said she dosent know whats wrong with her she said when im dating another girl she cant stand it but when im single she dosent like me anymore im kinda confused to .
That was the BIGGEST run-on sentence EVER!
:crazy:

Firstly, DON'T EVERY MAKE A STUPID THREAD AGAIN! ESPECIALLY MAKE TWO OF THE SAME EXACT THREADS!
:cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:

Now, that we have that cleared up...

Your answer is in The DJ Bible.

I'm telling you right now, if I were a Mod, I'd BAN your @$$ RIGHT NOW!

You want a few pointers?

Well here they are:

1. It's "she DOESN'T want ..."
2. DAFS
3. You are not Welcome


Have a Nice Day

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IF she doesnt want to date you but likes u then go out and dtae other people and ignore wat she says tell her that to bad she missed her chance and if she dsnt care then obviously she dsnt like u but if she begs u bak to go out with her then u win
 

Skilla_Staz

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Wow. I don't even feel like reading that. Punctuation man. Single thread. Spelling. ETC.

I'd tell the broad this. If she can date, then I can date. Simple as that. If she gets jealous, then thats her fault, she needs to figure out whats goin' on. I'd tell her that I don't wait for girls who play games, and when she realizes what she's missing out on, to go ahead and give me a call, and we'll see what happens from there.
 
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