She doesnt want a serious relationship. But should i still give her a chance? READ!

[silverwex]

hey all,

right a lot of ya might know my story. neway theres this chick that:

- broke it off w her bfriend (of 3yrs) to be with me, apparently.
- has been seeing me for over a week
- i asked out and when she cancelled a few hrs before i got onto her about it.
- last night said that she wasnt ready for a serious relationship yet
- i told her that i only wanted a casual relationship too but she hasnt replied to me yet.

Was it coz i got onto her about cancelling the date that she thought i was getting serious with her? UP til then we had a good thing going.

I must point out that when we're out she always comes over to me first and spends a lot of her time with me. Im not over possessive and not using her (two things she says she hates in fellas). She also says that she really likes me and "wants me bad" now and again.

SHould i just stand back for a while to let her sort her head out and lay off her a bit? Or is this relationship doomed?

Thanks all.

PS - Its worth pointing out that I live in Ireland where, even if girls are into ya they still dont treat ya the best and still go about your own lives. E.g theyll nearly always put ya on the back burner.

 

[( . )( . )]

you been seeing this chick for a week, whats all this relationship garbage talk? give it a rest thinking/talking about all that,
just left her boyfriend of 3 years, the last thing she wants is some guy spouting serious stuff.
keep it light

Or is this relationship doomed?

there was no relationship, shes young she wants a good time

 

[silverwex]

Hi, yeah i told her im only after a casual thing too. Thanks for that.

Im planning on heading out tonight and i feel like getting with some other chick. She could be in the same place. If she sees me getting with someone else will that put a stop to "us". Or should i wait round (not very DJ like is it?!) and c if she wants somethinhg somewhere down the line?

She said NOTHING makes her jealous!

???

Thanks

 

[JustDoItAlways]

Chicks (Irish ones as well) don't like "serious" guys. They like playful guys.

Chicks don't like "serious" relationships. They like playful ones.

As ( . )( . ) said, Chicks don't like "casual" relationships, they just like to keep it light and have fun. "Casual" means booty call to most girls.

(They like playful relationships, until they think you are "too" playful and not serious enough. Then they want you to be more serious and fall in love with them and committ to them. But then, they still don't really mean it, they just want to know that they have won you over. They still don't want a boring, serious guy.)

BTW ( . )( . ), I hope you don't mind but I copied your nic to end off some of my ****y and funny emails. lol

 

[trajhenkhet]

Let your actions be very serious and your heart, very light.