This girl I've been talking to for quite some time now finally tells me on the phone "I don't know what I want.." she doesn't know who she is, I guess. She still needs to find herself. She tells me that she doesn't think she ever wants kids or wants to be married. I was just silent, I didn't know how to respond to that ****. She's 25 years old and this just seems very unhealthy. Then I tell her my friend told me that she slept with my friend when she was here a few months ago and she got pissed because she claims she didn't and she feels that all my friends think she's a slut and she likes hanging out with me & my friends. I don't really want a relationship with this bytch anyways, just trying to fvck her. Any idea on how to game a chick like this?
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She doesn't know what she wants...Next?
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If you want this girl, don't bring up her past lays. That will just bring up her anti-slut defense, and you won't get a piece of the action.
If she's telling you that she doesn't know what she wants, then you need to back off and let her wonder about you. She may come at you again, and she may not. Stop talking about relationships all together. Let the women be the one to ask about it. The more you talk about it (which indicates chasing), the more she'll be against it.
If she's telling you that she doesn't know what she wants, then you need to back off and let her wonder about you. She may come at you again, and she may not. Stop talking about relationships all together. Let the women be the one to ask about it. The more you talk about it (which indicates chasing), the more she'll be against it.
She slept with your friend because he is discrete. She slept with your friend because he is not needy for her to marry him before he has even slept with her or even having those kinds of conversations with her because those kinds of relationship conversations coming from a guy = total gayness to a girl. She slept with your friend because girls want and like to have sex just to have sex and they want things to develope naturally if they are going to develope past that, not feel like some guy who is talking to her wants to corner her into a relationship or is the type to judge her. She slept with your friend because he is not the type of guy who would bring up the other guys she potentially slept with before she has even slept with you.
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If your in a relationship with this girl and it is defined as a relationship and she is already humping you, then disregard the above advice or don't and remember it after she dumps you, which she is getting ready to do because your retarded. (a little harsh but I am trying to get through to you)
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Let me give you an example of this girl I was talking to. She was interested but whenever I would bring up getting together or logistics she would get distant or nervous about it. I told her that obviously she doesnt know what she wants, and that I dont have time for it. I told her she was a cool girl and i definately liked her, but I only hang out with friends who know what they want because I am just too busy for that kind of sillyness.
She agreed to leave me alone.
Then she contacted me 3 days later. She asked me to call her. Then later when she had to get ahold of me again she practically begged for me to hang out with her, and she set up the time to get together. This is an example of a woman responding to a man WHO KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS. Who is a leader. Who has values. In fact one time I was talking to her on the phone and had her full attention. Some guy that was there ended up deciding to leave (not sure if it was a humpfriend of hers or not) I told her to tell him to stay because I am getting off the phone soon. That's called anti-needy. You should try it romeo.
Now
If your in a relationship with this girl and it is defined as a relationship and she is already humping you, then disregard the above advice or don't and remember it after she dumps you, which she is getting ready to do because your retarded. (a little harsh but I am trying to get through to you)
Finally
Let me give you an example of this girl I was talking to. She was interested but whenever I would bring up getting together or logistics she would get distant or nervous about it. I told her that obviously she doesnt know what she wants, and that I dont have time for it. I told her she was a cool girl and i definately liked her, but I only hang out with friends who know what they want because I am just too busy for that kind of sillyness.
She agreed to leave me alone.
Then she contacted me 3 days later. She asked me to call her. Then later when she had to get ahold of me again she practically begged for me to hang out with her, and she set up the time to get together. This is an example of a woman responding to a man WHO KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS. Who is a leader. Who has values. In fact one time I was talking to her on the phone and had her full attention. Some guy that was there ended up deciding to leave (not sure if it was a humpfriend of hers or not) I told her to tell him to stay because I am getting off the phone soon. That's called anti-needy. You should try it romeo.
well this bytch just called me again and this time telling me that she has feelings for her EX and it's been about a year and she doesn't know why she does. This is the reason she doesn't want a relationship and such. I just want to fvck this girl. She told me that when she stays with me if I'm gonna try to hook up with her I told her "No, we're just friends" but of course you know when it's me and her in my bed, we will hook up. I was just wondering what I could do to get this bytch to fall for me?
Umm, she told you that she still had feelings for her ex, but you still want her to want you. Fvck, you do not value yourself...
Beg the sh1t out of her. Supplicate... Send flowers... Be afc....
I'm telling you this because I want you to run her off. She's a b1tch, and you don't need her. You don't need ANYONE!
Beg the sh1t out of her. Supplicate... Send flowers... Be afc....
I'm telling you this because I want you to run her off. She's a b1tch, and you don't need her. You don't need ANYONE!
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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Then you're in a wrong forum... I don't think ppl here are going to help you degrade women. Have you seen Hitch? You know what Hitch did to that guy?baurman said:
You need serious help.