She doesnt drink!

[killerasp]

I met a cool asian girl the other night. but she doenst drink! i chatted her for a bit before she had to leave to walk her drunk friends home. ive never met a girl that doenst drink and i dont know what to do. usually if i met a girl, it would be easy to chat/tease her over beer or some alcohol. but there isnt anything to loosen her up so to speak.

would it be cool to "pressure" her into drinking? im not really sure how persue things since she doesnt drink. im asking this b/c the last 2 times i saw her was at my party but i just managed to talk to her yesterday for a brief time. so at the party, EVERYONE is drinking except her.

got any advice to help me "break the ice" without the alcohol?

 

[BobbDobbs]

Stop using alcohol as a crutch. If that is all you got in your game, you need to expand your playbook.

 

[killerasp]

Originally posted by BobbDobbs
Stop using alcohol as a crutch. If that is all you got in your game, you need to expand your playbook.

Well, that would be the basis of my post. i dont know how to. since this is party situation and alcohol wont be involved, it will pretty much be dull. if this was the library of the mall, it would be different, but it isnt. it is a party.

 

[BobbDobbs]

Well, she likes to hang where people are drinking, so I don't see the problem. It is not like she is refusing to be associated with those who are drinking. Feel free to drink in front of her.

If you feel the need to pressure her into something, make it sex rather than booze. heh heh

 

[hardwork]

Your question answers istelf!

Originally posted by killerasp
would it be cool to "pressure" her into drinking?

Dude, no! It's never "cool" to pressure anyone (especially those oh-too-often weak-willed counterparts of ours, WOMEN) into anything they don't want to do.

Anyway, I don't see what the problem here is, other than your fear of leaving your comfort zone. You've used alcohol too often as your means of macking, and now it has come back to, much like McGruff the Crime Dog, take a bite out of you.

Like BobbDobbs said, expand your playbook.

As for advice on "breaking the ice without alcohol", what's wrong with saying "Hi"? If other guys on this board can land chicks without being wrecked, I bet you can, too.

 

[Santos]

Originally posted by killerasp
She doesnt drink!

Oh no! How are you going to get her to sleep with you!?

Just kidding. Learn to relax without alchohol.