"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SomethingClever

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Next time a chick does this to you, do these 3 things the next time you talk to her:

1. Call her out on it
2. Bust C/F on her like crazy
3. Move on

And if she wants to hang out again, make her go on all fours and bark like a dog. Make her "make up" for her mistakes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PectoralisMajor

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On the contrary - calling to confirm IF you have set the date is a powerfull tool. I would only say this if the date was set up 2-3 days beforehand, and not the day before. Girls HATE not knowing if something is on or not, and since I'm normally quite busy I want to check its still on else I'l go arrange something else. if a girl has not heard a peep out of you for 3 days, she may assume automatically the date is off - kapiche?

Now i'm not saying call up and be all whimpish and asking ' is our date still on?' I'm saying give her a real quick bell and say ' Hi x, its Y. I was just giving you a quick call to check everything is still OK for tonight'. We'l meet at Y at 8pm blah blah.

The phonecall DECREASES her chance of flaking (assuming she is interested) and it puts in place some firm plans for meeting.
 

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Update

well, she emailed me Sunday night, the night I read her initial flake message. I didn't open it 6 days later til this morning. And just yesterday, I was getting her calls but didn't answer. Wanted to make her sweat for a while.

She apparently wants to make up for what she did. I know some of you fellow DJ say to give her a 2nd chance. This was the first time that she flaked on me aside from our recent get togethers. So maybe I will when the time is right. A quarter of my common sense wants to give her the benefit of the doubt. Though, I have a gut feeling some of you are right about her "openness" with her guy friends even though she told me she never let's any guy take advantage of her sexually just because they're with her alone together, (yeah right). It doesn't bother me to the extent of rage since we're not exclusive, BF-GF. Maybe I'm fooling myself into thinking I can seduce her enough to have a sexual "friends-with-benefits" type of relationship. I'll test her by telling her to meet me at the coffee shop next week after class without suggesting ANY confirmation. If she shows, great. If not, this is the last you'll here from me about this.

In the meantime, I have plans later tonight with that ballet dancer I told you fellow DJ about earlier on this thread. Later gentlemen, peace.
 

JustDoItAlways

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Everything she said about her guy friends and everything she has done to you so far are classic Attention Wh0re moves.
 
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Sorry kid, this is a rejection!!! All women have time for men who they deem as 'potential"!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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