"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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JayCamx23

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ok so i called this chick today. we talked for like a minute and then she says shell call me back cuz shes trying on shoes. im like ya i gtg too cuz im driving. so it turns out she didnt call back. well she might have called back and i just didnt get the call cuz my phone does that sometimes. anyway im gonna wait a few days to call her back. next time i talk to her i think im goin to confront her but with an "i dont really care" attitude. how would you handle the conversation??
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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just be normal. talk to her like you would normally.

the way you use the word 'confront' you make it seem like you're on the defense and you're trying to make her feel guilt.

just be like: "hey, did something come up when your were going to call me?" then tell her what you did instead... if you did anything socially... and make sure it doesn't come out rehearsed...

and a chick not calling you back is normal... all chicks do it... even if they're interested they still do it too sometimes.

don't worry about it.
 
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