"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She cried that i left the club?

slickaz

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ok so its 3 am now i just got back..

quick run through of my night,

i didnt necessarily go out to get chix or numbers because i went to play ball with the boys and ended up going to grab a drink that turned into a club after 12.

i walked in and there were no females..
so i started talking to the cute bartender (HB8) i get good rapport shes smiling etc.
she asks me what cologne are you wearing? it smells so good from here..so i told her..she was like wow! nice..

anyway then 2 girls walk in, then 3 more and it started to get busy.

2 girls walk up to me and my lads and start dancing in front of us..
i stepped and busted some moves they were smiling and giggling..but when i tried talking to them THEY IGNORED ME!!!

i went back to my seat to get a drink..then the younger (hb9.5, honestly) stands next to me..doesnt say a word.

i thought this was my only chance, so i leaned over to the bartender and started talking to her like i knew her forever...i said smtn like

"hey sexy..could i have a You special no rocks.."and winked..and the bartender was blushing..and made me a nice mix.

i think the HB9.5 saw this and thought i had good rapport with females..she asked me what drink that was..and i straight up told her
"O so now you wanna talk to me?" she was like "o i wasnt ignoring you or netn..im sorry"
i just laughed and said dont worry it doesnt make a diff to me..and that got her more interested..anyway i talked and swapped numbers..

while i was doing this, another HB9 walks in accompanied by a HB6. i was like WOW!..meanwhile HB9.5 tells me about the other girl she's with...turns out they are sisters..the other sister wasnt interested in talking because she wasnt getting any attn from my boys..so she pulled HB9.5 away.

cool..
so i kicked it..checked out the NEW HB9 with HB6. she smiled when i smiled at her..then she came up to the bar to grab a drink..i did the same thing with the bartender, and she too fell for it..i got her number.

but she was a superb dancer, shes russian..we're dancing etc.

first HB9.5 then texts me from across the room.

"im so jealous, you're dancing with another girl and im sittin here waiting for you to come take me to the floor..."

i didnt text back..after about 10 mins..russian wants to go out for a smoke..i dont smoke so i let her go out with her 6.

walk over to first hb9.5 put my hand and out and ask her to dance..she first hessitates..and i said "last chance..i might just go home now...you put too much effort into making that dress look that good to just sit on it..."

she giggled and took my hand..we danced she laughed etc more talk and she bought me a drink etc..

i pull her aside to the vip area and kiss close.

come out after half hour to find russian chic has been lookin for me and gave up..

anyway first hb9.5s sister wants to go coz of no attn from any of the guys..shes hot but she almost looks butch or just angry..so..


they leave..i then creep up on the russian n tap on her shoulder.
she turns around hugs me and kisses me on my face..anyway we start dancing

same quesion "What fragrance is that?" it is turning me on lol

i take her outside and about to kiss close when some AFC friend of hers who has a crush, comes up and starts talkin to her...so im like ok sweet..im not gonna show her that all i want is to bang her..plus i dont share..so i left and went back up.

she chased me up 10 mins later and apologises tells me that guy has this massive crush on her but she not interested..

we dance..time comes for me to leave..i tell her im out.
she gets teary eyed,...like
"but you cant leave, i love your dance moves, and your shirt, and your muscles, and the way you smell!...noo dont go..plz..i cant dance without you"

im like ummmm ok..i need to go tho..
she does it again but this time...starts cryng.

i get upset like damn wtf!! how about i text you tomoro and we sort smtn out??
shes happy now and says she was only jokin..but somehow wiping her tears away telling me she was playing...not equate,

anyway first HB9.5 hit me up asking me whats up and hope i had a good night and to hit me up tomorow..
ill just ring her and organize a date.

oh ps" the bartender also took my number and hit me up when i got home asking me why im not in the club when he has her break, she wants to dance with me..


advice...wisdom? anything..appreciated..cheers
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Metaphysical

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lol sounds like you did fine. i think she was fake crying. ive had girls do that to me before.. "ohh please dont go i cant live without you".. they're just trying to play around with you, don't take it literally... they're trying to be little wise a$$es.

whats cologne WERE you wearing? you had like 3 ppl comment on it, thats pretty damn good for a club where everyone reeks of Armani
 

shaunuk

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hmm sounds like a good night mate :)

yeah, what cologne were ya wearing? you sound like a good dancer as well, good work.

Hit those *****es up and tap it, looks like all 3 are into you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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slickaz

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teehehehehehe...

I did a short work experience at a top mens fragrance cologne retailer shop so in the downtime, i got to mix n match different perfumes. the best mixes...:

For Clubs = mix one part sean john + 2 parts Roberto Cavali Collectors Edition 08 or Armani Black.

and for dates = Izzey Miyaki L'issey 1 parts with 2 parts Lacoste Essential

Everytime i wear this mix i get alot of kino..so..if you wanna try and let me know...

individually, the best fragrances are Lacoste Essential, Euphoria CK, and
Roberto Cavali. I switch between them to work and when i wear those i get ALOT of attn and compliments.

Overall my most favourite and most potent at pulling chix = Blue Jeans,Versace. Hard to find.

Shaun: i used to dance in a hip hop crew in varsity.. so i got some moves.lol.

Metaphysical: yeh i figured she was just playing around...
i also forgot to mention that when she first walked in she walked in with a HB6, but i saw her and a guy sitting in one of the cubes at the club, she was standing between his legs and he was kissin her hands...
when i later asked her who she came her with, she said oh a friend of mine, but he's gone home now.she didnt mention the HB6.so..lol i knew she was a AW/Ho. but she's a hot AW/Ho..

Cheers dudes..
 
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