"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok so i had ditched the last girls who screwed me over and decided to see this new girl that i like. We have alot in common, great connection, both like eachother. I have been on about 5 dates with her, we have made out, watched movies and cuddled but no sex yet...

So my question for you is, im lucky to see this chick once a month..ive tried setting dates weekly but shes either "too busy or cant make it" yet she doesnt work and is always with her friends, she even couldnt see me for valentines because she was "too busy with her friends" mind you i havent seen her in like 3 weeks, and im lucky to hear from her once a week although lately i havent heard from her at all. i dont understand her if she really liked me then why wont she see me more or contact me more?? its not like i text her everyday i dont....is she just another game player that i should drop or what?? ive been seeing her for 3 months now but shes been really distant lately, hardly returns my texts or hasnt even bothered to see how im doing in like 3 weeks since i seen her last...??? should i call it quits and move on??
i approached her about it and she just comes up with the same excuses like shes busy or her phones playing up....HELP!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, if not for the fact that you've made out with her, I'd say she didn't give two ****s about you, but you have so probably the thing to do is to cut off contact for a while. See if she comes back or not.
 
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Definitely stop contacting her. Go see other girls, and forget about her.
 
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how long do i go NC with her for? what if she doesnt contact me? do i say something to her, like whys she been distant?
 
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scorpion666 said:
how long do i go NC with her for? what if she doesnt contact me? do i say something to her, like whys she been distant?
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Wow dude get a clue!!!! She's NOT INTERESTED!!! Girls with high interest make it easy to get together; they make time for you no matter how busy their schedule is..... it seems obvious that there are other guys in her life aside from you; at best your her 3rd option most likely 4th or 5th.

Forget about her; NC is not gonna help she won't care because she doesn't have interest in you. Let it be and start meeting new girls, no need to say anything or ask for a explanation....

Remember this: A woman's action's always speak louder than her words and are the TRUE indicator of how she feels about you.

Now read your question again and think about it logically.




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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I had a girl send me a VD card,when I called her and told her I'd rather have a hug-we wet up a date for Friday. See how easy it is if they are interested? IF her "friends" are more important than you are-you don't rate on her list at all. YOU are someone she gets a free meal/movie out of when she is bored or her friends all have dates or her real BF is out of town.
 
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