she confuses me

[scorpion666]

Ok so i had ditched the last girls who screwed me over and decided to see this new girl that i like. We have alot in common, great connection, both like eachother. I have been on about 5 dates with her, we have made out, watched movies and cuddled but no sex yet...

So my question for you is, im lucky to see this chick once a month..ive tried setting dates weekly but shes either "too busy or cant make it" yet she doesnt work and is always with her friends, she even couldnt see me for valentines because she was "too busy with her friends" mind you i havent seen her in like 3 weeks, and im lucky to hear from her once a week although lately i havent heard from her at all. i dont understand her if she really liked me then why wont she see me more or contact me more?? its not like i text her everyday i dont....is she just another game player that i should drop or what?? ive been seeing her for 3 months now but shes been really distant lately, hardly returns my texts or hasnt even bothered to see how im doing in like 3 weeks since i seen her last...??? should i call it quits and move on??
i approached her about it and she just comes up with the same excuses like shes busy or her phones playing up....HELP!!

 

[killahpl]

Well, if not for the fact that you've made out with her, I'd say she didn't give two ****s about you, but you have so probably the thing to do is to cut off contact for a while. See if she comes back or not.

 

[DonutMan]

Definitely stop contacting her. Go see other girls, and forget about her.

 

[scorpion666]

how long do i go NC with her for? what if she doesnt contact me? do i say something to her, like whys she been distant?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

how long do i go NC with her for? what if she doesnt contact me? do i say something to her, like whys she been distant?

Wow dude get a clue!!!! She's NOT INTERESTED!!! Girls with high interest make it easy to get together; they make time for you no matter how busy their schedule is..... it seems obvious that there are other guys in her life aside from you; at best your her 3rd option most likely 4th or 5th.

Forget about her; NC is not gonna help she won't care because she doesn't have interest in you. Let it be and start meeting new girls, no need to say anything or ask for a explanation....

Remember this: A woman's action's always speak louder than her words and are the TRUE indicator of how she feels about you.

Now read your question again and think about it logically.




PIMP

 

[sodbuster]

I had a girl send me a VD card,when I called her and told her I'd rather have a hug-we wet up a date for Friday. See how easy it is if they are interested? IF her "friends" are more important than you are-you don't rate on her list at all. YOU are someone she gets a free meal/movie out of when she is bored or her friends all have dates or her real BF is out of town.