"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She Confused Me.

Pipe Layer

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Ive been talking to this chick for a lil while and during our conversation she confused me alot, i didnt know what exactly she was trying to do.

I was in my class doing some work, her class was in there to, anyway, she calls me over and i look at her work and we talk, i say something about her dress style and i touch her a few times, she invites me to another room, so i go.

I bring my books, etc etc, we talk on the way and im thinking,"she must like me", we get to the room and she gets her school **** out and we talk, we start talking and she asks me where im from, i tell her and she makes a joke about how people where im from are soft, etc, etc, then we begin to talk and we get a good convo going on, some touching etc, etc.

She then starts talking bout sex, so im thinking, "she definatly likes me", then she tells me she has a boyfriend, at this point im thinking "whats going on, is she trying to play with me", we carry on talking and she says "all guys want is sex", i gave her a wierd look and she starts talking, i keep with the convo and look at her a certain way, she says "why are u looking at me that way, i know that look", i raised my eyebrow and basically was looking at her trying to figure her out, we talk some more and i say i have to go.

later on i go back to my original class and she comes back, we talk for a lil while and she asks me to come back cuz she wants some company, so i go back down and there some students there, we carry on talking and she says "men are only good for one thing but we can do it by ourselves" she then says she just fingers herself, at this point im thinking, why is she telling me this, i was confused, she has a boyfriend yet shes telling me this, later on i say i gotta go(****, DIDNT GET HER NUMBER)and she says, "go" in a rude voice and i say something about her liking spending time with me and she says, she would if she didnt have a boyfriend, then she mocks me by saying "i need a friend anyway" im thinking, whats goin on, she cant want me as a friend becuz this is around the first time we talked and ive never done anything to be labled a friend.

The next day i see her when she was going home and i give her a look, a up and down looking at her body, she smiles and says "why are u looking at me like that" and i say "um" kind of like a "damn, i wanna **** u look", she smiles and says goodbye and then to some other dude whos a student in her class.

She confused me, i dont know if she likes me, wants to **** me...my friend in my class told me when i wasnt there she had come up and asked where i was, if she likes me, why doesnt she say it, is she sending my signals, i keep getting these "i like u signals" yet she tells me she has a boyfriend.

What is she doing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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Eh she's another bullsh!t games player.

She wants you but is putting you through a crappy test right now with that looking for a friend sh!t.

Basically if I were you and she and I were together and I'm making her laugh and getting some kino in here and there and go in for the kiss and she tries to stop me and then says that "No, I'm just looking for a friend" sh!t I'd calmly get up and before I walked out the door I'd say "Nice, I hope you find one someday".

Stuff like that usually puts the interest level through the roof and she'd be blowing up your phone for days after that trying to get you to hang out and alluding to maybe becoming more serious with you.

If she does that you have the power and must keep it and make the hanging out stuff on your terms not hers.
 

KontrollerX

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"She has a boyfriend, why is she trying to get me?"

Either she's not happy in the relationship and is shopping around or is an AW and is like this naturally and needs all the extra male attention and sometimes sexual encounters on the side to feel alive.

Either way she is showing you that her character is pretty damned awful.

Whatever though this chick sounds like she could be a fun fling for you if you work her right.

So yeah forget about the why and just concentrate on getting in her pants since she seems receptive but again only if you game her right.

This one is not real relationship material.

Again, just for fun and a short term fling.
 
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