"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She confessed to me that she has slept with 2 other men.

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Wowowowowowow!! wait just a minute damn it!:mad:

Before yall start talking about drop her next her etc....She lives in spain and i live in miami and we havent seen each other for 2yrs and i have a Serious GF here in miami :) :D :cool:

Now stuff changes a little huh....

When i left from spain she told me how she was gonna wait for me until i came back:rolleyes: ( did i have any intentions in coming back any time soon? i dont think so:D )
So she waited like for a whole yr i believe without sleeping with noone,, i asked her a few months back how many people she has slept with she said, none, she said that she went out with 2 but that she didnt have sex with them.
Now today i ask her again and she told me 2 that she has had sex with 2 of them.

I don know but i think i got like a 6th sense, something told me to call her cause something was fishy...

I called her in happy chilling confortable tune and mode, but she sounded too dry from the get go, she sounded like she wasnt excited by being on the phone with me, so i asked her why she sounds so dry, she got an attitude when i asked her that.

Come to found out is that she is mad at my mom cause i sent my mom some pictures of memorial day weekend, where i was grabbing fat booties and i took pictures with a lotta girls, my mom didnt wanna show her the pictures but she showed everybody else so i guess thats why she sounded so dry and stuff.

Thats when i decided to ask her again about how many sex partners shes had since i left, and she said 2, the two that she went out with, so she lied to me in the previous ocassion when i asked her.

After that cause of the way she sounded and attitude that she gave me, i just said "Ok have a nice day" she said the samething and i closed with a "bye"


I find this kinda disrispectful cause she still goes to my mom house and sleeps and eats there whenever she wats, she goes to my aunti house and sleeps and eats there when she wants, as a matterfact thats where she was when i called her earlier, spending the week, so not has she only disrespected me, but my family also.


What yall think about this situation, im not mad, cause i got the girl that i care about here in miami with me but just the fact that she lied to me and did what she did, that just disapoints me.
 

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Ok first off, if you are not mad why are you sweating it? How is it disrespectful if you are banging you chick in miami and you have the nerve to be upset?!?!?! She hasn't disprespected you and if you feelshe did you obviously started...so go put your pants back on young man and take it as it is...She has not disrespected your family obviously, I'm pretty sure they wouldn't give a $hit who she sleeps with.:cuss:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by lebRambo
^^^^^

*sigh* this is why we can't have women here :rolleyes:
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Actually, for once, she's correct. What the hell is this clown whining about? She's not with you anymore, PS, so she can sleep with any guy she wants. You're with a girl already, so why the hell are you mad that she got with guys? Besides, you didn't plan on going back.
 
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i have to agree. YOu can't have your cake and eat it too. She probably saw the writing on the wall and moved on
 
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Agreed. Your doing the same thing to her, as she is to you, and since you havent seen each other in two years, are you even technically dating? You need to stop trippin and move on.
 
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And if you believe that she has only been with 2 other men you are crazier than posting this made you look!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by lebRambo
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*sigh* this is why we can't have women here :rolleyes:
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its already been said. but she was the first one with decent advice.

the guys who posted before her were clueless..
since she spoke the truth, the rest have.

she's obviously friends with your auntie and mother. u went away and wanted her faithful for an unknown ammount of time, while u bang other gilrs?

..and ur upset she's only banged 2? (which probably means 4 or 5... but could mean 10)..

don't expect a girl to become a nun because u go to miami.
 
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Honestly when she told me that, i just felt like laughing out loud, but i holded it in.

Im not upset at all, believe me if i was i would say it straight up, but im not, im just like.....lol i dont know, i guess i just wanted to hear your views on this, believe me when i say i dont care, i do not care, the only way ill care is if she had sex with one of my friends, and even then i wouldnt make it that big of a deal.
 
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