she clings to me even though she has a bf..

[Francisco d'Anconia]

It's pretty close-minded to answer the question firmly when there could be a million posibilities. Even though i agree with the general answer, there could be other reasons. We don't know, we can only depend on what he says. If he would have said that the BF is a b1tch and he is not really close friends with her it would be completely different.

Even if there were a million possibilities, none of us know which one cr2 wants to hear because it's obvious that he hoping that it's not any of the reasons that are readily apparent.

 

[backbreaker]

leave the kid alone... he will learn one way or another, it's not even worth getting up in a bunch over.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

k w.e i will choose to find out "the hard way" then...its not taht i dont belive your opinions are correct, its that i think they are total bull****..i ask myself why i even asked complete strangers in there first place...i mean its not like they are actauly in my situation or no exactly whats going on

if a mod would please close this before i go insane i would be much aprechtive

LOL!!! Give the baby his bottle he's getting cranky again! I tried to defend you a bit, but Francisco is right you are a tool. And please do post about it when you get this girl because CLEARLY we don't know what were talking about.





PIMP

 

[Luveno]

I'm thinking this cr2 guy is a troll. But, if you're not, here's my advice:

This girl is using you as her "emotional tampon". What she gets from you is the feeling that she is valued and desired, because you value and desire her. What she gets from her boyfriend is sex, because she likes to have sex with him. To girls, sex is more valuable than friendship.

When you said that you knew her for a year and a half and she wouldn't use you because you have some sort of "bond", it made me shake my head in disapproval. Women are not like men. When men form friendships, they are very strong and last for years. I bet you knew your best friend since you started kindergarten. Conversely, girls tailor their friends to whatever suits their current situation. If you ask any girl how long they've known their best friend, they will say a year or two tops.

This girl does not respect you and is only using you as a way to make her feel more valuable. My suggestion to you is to cut off all contact with this girl. Best case scenario is that she offers her body to you in order to get your attention back, or you never speak to her again and thus rid yourself of her dead weight. There is no worst case scenario.

 

[backbreaker]

I overheard my old oneitis say one day, that if she combined me and the guy she choose to date over me, you would have the perfect BF... that really made me wake up and reazlie what was going on, even though guys here bashed my head, I didn't want to listen.. I wish I would have earlier.. and the sad thing is, I had other options.. other good options. My competitive nature made me chase what I couldn't at the time have, I should have moved on alot earlier.

you really do need to look in the mirror Cr2, you have issues.. do you think your friend wants to let a guy who wines the way you are right now in between her legs?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... that really made me wake up and reazlie what was going on, even though guys here bashed my head, I didn't want to listen.. I wish I would have earlier.. and the sad thing is, I had other options.. other good options. My competitive nature made me chase what I couldn't at the time have, I should have moved on alot earlier.

:yes: This is the thing that could project guys beyond the AFC stage, the realization that they have options. It's sad to read post after post women having unrealistic power over us and guys with unhealthy cases of one-itis. There are tons of women available to sarge, why get hung up on the ones which obviously aren't interested at the same level we are?

If they could get past their egos about always getting their way, they could have a productive, less stressful dating life. Unfortunately most guys are too busy trying to be right rather than seeing things for what they are and doing what works. I don't know if they have something to prove, are fearful of not succeeding or what.

 

[brenbaus]

I overheard my old oneitis say one day, that if she combined me and the guy she choose to date over me, you would have the perfect BF

hahah, i had my oneitis tell me that

 

[backbreaker]

I mean I have been fortunate enough to do alot of traveling at my age, so I have gotten out of arkansas, but not for a prolonged period of time, so I realloy hadn't seen what was "out there"... while my old oneitis is still georgous, 2 full weeks down here in Sarasota/Venice I have seen literarly at least 20 women that look better than she does... and get this... they aren't, or at least, don't seem to be, little princesses like she was. I mean she is cool but she has issues... it never really was ME that was the problem and once I realized that, I moved on and was happy as could be. YOu couldn' tpay me to date her now.

I saw a chick last night... I mean, her breasts could be a little bigger, but we are nitpicking now... you couldn't design a better body. About 5'9, long legs, a perfect facial strucute, long blonde hair, a cute little ass, etc.. and they are everywhere down here.. thank god I didn't make a mistake and do someting stupid like get married at an early age..

 

[rrrrr]

one thing i learned about oneitis is that the more you like them, but can't have them, want them, etc, the better looking they become. An average girl can be hot when she uses her skills and gets you hooked. So when you get over your oneitis and see her again, you'll wonder what you were thinking.

 

[brenbaus]

I saw a chick last night... I mean, her breasts could be a little bigger, but we are nitpicking now... you couldn't design a better body. About 5'9, long legs, a perfect facial strucute, long blonde hair, a cute little ass, etc.. and they are everywhere down here.. thank god I didn't make a mistake and do someting stupid like get married at an early age..

amen brother, i also saw a hottie last night, damn nearest to a 10 i have ever seen (no chick is a 10) prolly 5'6'' without the heels, perfect ass, not huge, but veluptious chest, slim waist. A co-worker of mine proceeded to say "god damn, i'd leave bite marks on her"

 

[sherineo]

Wake UP

dude u were shurely eatin a lot of her snit.....
I have seen many girls who carry such guys around like hand bags
talk sweet..manipulate them...talk of never befor emotional bonding...
talk stuff like cant live without you...holding close to u or intentionally showing up cleavage...callin u best friend knowing it inside that u have feelings fr her...how cld i live without u brother....givin u more **** in breakfst lunch dinner....will call u a gay joking some day n then will laugh it off...put all her emotional snit on u but ur emotions are bullsnit fr her....

I have seen girls back biting there platonik close best male friends...
they juz hate it when people say that they r ur friend...they wont ever acknowledge this that u r her friend at ur back

If u'll try to stay cold...act aloof she wont let u...she wld come running back to u...will give u all ur fvourite emotional stuff + **** teases...she knows u fvck her in ur imaginations even if u dont she wants u to think of her round the clock....she knows that when u r going away u r just checkin her...she'll come running back to u...after all how can she stay away frm her most loyal puppy dog....ready wag his tail ...and kiss her ass at the drop of her hat....

dude u might get into her pants this way...someday when she's is drunk or down but trust me that wld be death of your manhood...u better go and fvck a pig but leave her like pig...

dont worry if u feel down....there's nothin wrong in goin thru all this only if u know to rise & not fall back again...

fvck man u have ballz n u can reject her

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

LOL!!! Give the baby his bottle he's getting cranky again! I tried to defend you a bit, but Francisco is right you are a tool. And please do post about it when you get this girl because CLEARLY we don't know what were talking about.





PIMP

Come on now, I didn't call him a tool outright... He's just being used.... Like a tool...

 

[cr2]

ill repost this later with the details more sensile...because half of what i posted was just copy and pastes and i didn t actualy take tie too add everything

no shut the **** up and stop clingy to this faggasses idea...if i said sheeps fly would you belive it??

as i said..i didnt add half of the **** that needs to be here ill post later when i have more time

 

[brenbaus]

no shut the **** up and stop clingy to this faggasses idea...if i said sheeps fly would you belive it??

no, because i already know that sheep"s" dont fly, duh! whats a sheeps anyway? seriously dude, you asked our opinion and we gave it, just because it wasn't the awnser you want to hear you start rasing cane at people, whatever

 

[backbreaker]

a wise man once said not to argue with a fool, because from a distance a stranger can't tell who is who.

all we can do is present our past experiences and knowledge to people, if they don't want it, fine, that's their decision. If he wants to get jerkish, let him be, but don't argue with him.. he has is right to his opinion just as we have ours... even though it's wrong, but nevertheless