"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She cheats...she gets 70%

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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That's "no-fault" divorce. Every state has it now. There is no punishment at all for infidelity; the split is still 50/50 of all wealth accumulated during the marriage.
 

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The values of this nation sure have degraded in many ways over the years. Maybe there's too much entitlement nowadays. I think Americans sometimes take equality and "fairness" to an extreme, or something. It's also true that money is power and life in a capitalist society, thus many people try and take advantage of this opportunity. A divorce settlement like this is definitely not win-win. I don't see how she is entitled to so much of Hulk's assets, especially in his company. I don't know a single thing about his company, but theoretically we're supposed to be a land of opportunity where you have the freedom to start your own business and reap the profits of the seeds you sow. But, I'm assuming his wife did not create most of Hulk's companies, unless she was the brains behind the operation and he was only a "brand" for the company. Whatever anyone thinks, 50/50 may be bullshvt, but it's fair in terms of the damage that could be done if either person had less.
 

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Yes bible belt the whole notion of a 'no fault' divorce is odd to me.

I can't think of a business contract where one party can just choose to break the contract randomly without cause...AND THEN GAIN OVER HALF THE EARNINGS IN DOING SO!!!! why even make an effort to run a business if that were possible?

I mean if that were the case business partners would be breaking partnerships left and right...hmmm..sounds like our current divorce rate.

And at the end of the day..marriage is a contract....the no fault goes a long way to explain why women in the main are all about the wedding and less about the marriage. WOMEN GAIN MORE $$ BY NOT PUTTING IN THE EFFORT...of course luckily women don't think that way :)
 

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Dear Burroughs,
Some years ago I was in "The lone Fathers support group"...the stories there would make you weep....One Guy of my acquaintence had denied himself much by keeping a Wife at home with four Kids,she ran off with a bloke who came to clean the Carpet....They had four Kids...she got 70% plus about that much of his weekly wage...The poor bloke had to get a second job just to survive,it will be ten years before he can have an even reasonable life style....Sure marriage can be a great institution but be warned that you only have a fifty-fifty chance of its surviving...The penalties that the benificant state impose are Humungeous.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Burroughs said:
Hulk's ex cheated and then got 70%,

Yeah...I'm sure she was the 'brains' behind the empire.

If you have wealth or plan on being rich, beware.

http://tv.yahoo.com/blogs/yahoo-tv/hulk-hogan-divorce-details-public-210908388.html

fellas lets refrain from 'she was with him 26 years white knight routine.'
She wanted half his future income so he made this "deal" to get her off his back because his potential future earnings potential is huge. He was likely advised by his people that this was better for him in the long run, not that it should have been that way in the first place. I believe he didn't have a prenup in place, which was the source of a lot of his troubles in this matter.



Bible_Belt said:
That's "no-fault" divorce. Every state has it now. There is no punishment at all for infidelity; the split is still 50/50 of all wealth accumulated during the marriage.
The 50/50 thing depends on the state. Maryland doesn't have that, but the judge can split assets any way he sees fit, so it's actually possible to come out even worse than that so YMMV.


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Yes bible belt the whole notion of a 'no fault' divorce is odd to me.

I can't think of a business contract where one party can just choose to break the contract randomly without cause...AND THEN GAIN OVER HALF THE EARNINGS IN DOING SO!!!! why even make an effort to run a business if that were possible?

I mean if that were the case business partners would be breaking partnerships left and right...hmmm..sounds like our current divorce rate.

And at the end of the day..marriage is a contract....the no fault goes a long way to explain why women in the main are all about the wedding and less about the marriage. WOMEN GAIN MORE $$ BY NOT PUTTING IN THE EFFORT...of course luckily women don't think that way :)

Fully agree. This is why so many guys are jumping on the MRA/MGTOW bandwagon. Don't be surprised though when in a decade or so the laws change because it's women that start being affected more so than men as women become the primary breadwinners in relationships. When it's women getting butt****ed by the screwed up divorce laws, that's when it'll all change for the better. See also:

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/mn48q/womens_pay_to_overtake_mens_by_2020/
 

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Burroughs,
Some years ago I was in "The lone Fathers support group"...the stories there would make you weep....One Guy of my acquaintence had denied himself much by keeping a Wife at home with four Kids,she ran off with a bloke who came to clean the Carpet....They had four Kids...she got 70% plus about that much of his weekly wage...The poor bloke had to get a second job just to survive,it will be ten years before he can have an even reasonable life style....Sure marriage can be a great institution but be warned that you only have a fifty-fifty chance of its surviving...The penalties that the benificant state impose are Humungeous.

Read this for an itemized list of risks & liabilities you undertake by getting married:

http://dontmarry.wordpress.com/

The highlights:

  • Marriage can mean career slavery
  • If she stops working, she may never work again.
  • Even more unfair double standards that favour wives
  • If you pamper your wife, it can be used against you
  • Many of the traditional reasons why a man gets married are a myth. (due to changing gender roles, laws, and so on)
 

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Nice article Nutz..we should make the chicks buy us bass boats!

Yes I think things may change as women become primary breadwinners...but I don't know.

Most high income women I know are EXTREMELY SHREWD...They don't pay for sh!t and they demand that the men they are with be financially on their level or greater...its a standard no rich man would have for any woman because well....we just need them to be hot with a tight azz.

Sure as they age the wealthy chicks have to look at the poorer handyman to get with them and their baggage, but by in large chicks who earn bank keep a lock on their money...frankly rich men would be wise to mimic them.
 

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Burroughs said:
Hulk's ex cheated and then got 70%,

Yeah...I'm sure she was the 'brains' behind the empire.

If you have wealth or plan on being rich, beware.

http://tv.yahoo.com/blogs/yahoo-tv/hulk-hogan-divorce-details-public-210908388.html

fellas lets refrain from 'she was with him 26 years white knight routine.'
Man I can't believe you found that first. That is some SS porn, if there ever was such a thing. A gold mine article. You're guaranteed 2-3 greens squares minimum. I know I'm clicking positive just out of SS principle.
 

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So I just had a look on Hulk Hogan's Wikipedia page, and it turns out he got married to another woman last December!!

Hulk seems like a smart guy, but he's just asking to get shafted again. Hopefully he got some kind of prenup.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Burroughs,
What a little Goldmine,your Net site on Marriage is....you have done well my Son!!!!
Middle Son is getting married before Christmas,not a bad thing,his Thyroid Gland has broken down,as a side effect from Chemo-therapy seven years ago,and his Consort is rich as Croesus...I am going to the wedding,I will have several Photo Copies of this Article in my Coat pocket....Youngest Son will get a copy for sure...So Thanks for that.
 

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No problem Scara...truth is in the details.

I believe we can learn from others if we have the courage to see our lives in theirs.
 
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