"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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im has been answered before but the search wont work for me for some reason. anyways i met this chick that i am really interested in. got the date etc.. now were going out. well i kissed her for the first time yesterday. the problem? shes not that good at kissing. does anyone have any ideas on how i can help her improve, without telling her that she's bad at it. she seems to get better every time we kiss, should i just let time take care of it and let her get some more experience? any ideas would be appriciated. thanks to all who reply. peace
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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just kiss her more
 
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She probably had no idea how to do it i.e. has never done it before. Keep it up, and if she doesn't improve try to put it to her in a direct but nice way. Something like "I really enjoy the way you kiss me, and I'd enjoy it more if you would (insert tip here)." That sentence pretty much covers it.
Cheers.
 
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I had NO FVCKING CLUE what I was doing my first time. I mean I had absolutely zero control of my face/lips, and especially hands. Its as if I didn't have them somehow. I wouldn't blame her. She'll get used to it though. Just kiss her more often, and for chrissake don't tell her she's bad at it. She'll never kiss you again and like it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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