"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She can't have sex because of a yeast infection.
- Thread starter numbfung
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
I wouldn't recommend having sex with her during the infection. First off, you can pass the infection between yourselves while trying to get rid of it. Second, it's kinda gross. Depending upon how bad the infection is, it look cottage cheesy. Plus the women's medication is goopy, and so she's sure to be self conscious.
I've had one, from my wife, and we spent several weeks passing it between each other until we abstained from sex long enough to be certain we were both clear of it.
Give her at LEAST a week after she says she's cured before having sex.