she cancels on you without counter offer of another time. should u always next?

[pete101]

this is an annoying thing which happens.. especially with girls off facebook. you set up a date they agree, they cancel last minute with no offer of another time.

should you next them?

usually it's by a text when they cancel to avoid confrontation. i understand if you've already met them then u should next, but if you're meeting off of facebook she might be apprehensive about meeting a stranger so should you try once more a week later then next?

 

[pete101]

for my particular example i made arrangements yesterday with this HB on the phone but i f'd up right at the end. i had the agreement and the place and i decided to yap on asking her other questions.. she got annoyed and was like 'ok i'll see you tomorrow..' but not in a very positive tone.

i suspected she'd flake after that.. and surprise surprise she has. i didn't know what to do so i called her 5mins later she hung up on me but she was in a class. so i text her 'naughty. if you're cancelling it's your responsibility to offer another time im busy tomorrow but free wednesday so same time?'

i probably shouldn't have offered another time but since i've never met her before i don't know if the same rules apply about interest etc.

plus i've noticed the really spoilt rich beautiful HBs are always the ones who cancel last minute and don't offer another time.. they're so spoilt and used to getting what they want from men/daddy that it's like they feel they can behave how they want.

even if you've never met the girl to be able to spit game in person should u still next?

 

[pete101]

what would be a good response to the cancellation text of 'hey im busy tonight-sorry'?

for some of us it's hard not to just leave it and not respond.. so if we have to say something would 'tut tut you're blowing your chances with me by not offering another time.. ' be ok?

or would this not work because if she's a stranger from facebook who you haven't met it's not going to come across very well?

this is the perils of facebook.. because they have never met u they feel like they can treat u as less of an individual who they have met.. and u should just accept and understand that apprehension.

thing is if i call next week she won't pick up or call me back.. because im a stranger. so in effect it's over already like she's decided not to even meet you so u can't blame u didn't perform in person.. cos you never even got the chance! that's terrible.

 

[Sicx]

Best thing would be to not text her for a week or so and try again after a week if you really want another shot....right now you may seem like your pushing too much and its not going well. Give it a week and ask her out again, if she deny's with no counter-offer....toss her.

 

[pete101]

see with these facebook meet ups you are never really sure how into she can really be..

like right now my normal thing would be to call her tomorrow evening and assuming she picks up.. give her a hard time about her not getting back to me about my offer of wednesday saying she's lost points. usually 7/10 times i'd get the meet up.. but i think it's more her to get it out of the way.

but normally when it comes to the meet up i do so well that we begin dating. now im at odds as to whether i should wait till end of the week to call.. cos with HBs it takes very little time for her to find someone she likes with all the would be suitors.

if i call tomorrow will that just push her away and too risky?

 

[oakraiderz2]

You should wonder why she cancelled instead of if you should next them. Perhaps theres a flaw in your game...