"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she cancels on me, how should i react?

eastside562

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Had a 2nd date that was gonna go down tommarow. The night before our date she cancels.

She texted me this.

Hey I'm not able to hang out tomorrow night something came up with family. We will hang out another time. I'm sorry I will make it up to you. I'm really sorry again!

So i replied its fine, no worries.

Than she replies
I'm really sorry! :(

From thier i stopped replying.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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crazyboy

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okay just let her call you back then if she truly sorry she would get back at you. if not let her go. If you dont believe me wait a week contact her if she give you another excuses then there your answer. You dont reply and go on date with another chick or set up another plate. is not rocket science
 

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Give her one more chance. Don't make a follow-up text about the date. It's her shot now. You can make a single text that shows your concern though, and not necessarily to make her reply, like:
"Hey, just wanna say i hope all is well with your loved ones, take care."

Keep it that simple.

Keep exploring the green pasteur. Collect and select
 

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Your princess is in another castle. Move on.

No counter offer? Erase and replace her, she did that to you anyway.

Case closed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don-Kong

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She's busy with family, seems pretty normal to me. How long has she known you? There ya go.
She said she was really sorry.
Dont think about her till you get some further feedback from her.
 

eastside562

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RagingBalls said:
Give her one more chance. Don't make a follow-up text about the date. It's her shot now. You can make a single text that shows your concern though, and not necessarily to make her reply, like:
"Hey, just wanna say i hope all is well with your loved ones, take care."

Keep it that simple.

Keep exploring the green pasteur. Collect and select
I took you advice and replied 7 hours later. I lost all feelings overnight, i dont mean to sound like an ass but my last ex played the **** out of me and my gaurd is always up and ready to drop it like its hot. She almost bailed on our first date too becuase her dad needed her car but later she got it back in time and went out with me and seem apologetic in that event too.
 

eastside562

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20 days

Don-Kong said:
She's busy with family, seems pretty normal to me. How long has she known you? There ya go.
She said she was really sorry.
Dont think about her till you get some further feedback from her.
I known her for 20 days.
 

Don-Kong

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she's an utter stranger then. Unless you've developed deep rapport and attachment.
I've know Razz mags longer. lol.
Relax, STOP thinking about this. Peace.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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