Good. She gave you no counter offer. Don't give in and text or call her. If she really likes you and wants to see you, she will contact you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She came on strong, mentioned a guy she's dating once, then never mentioned him again.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually reading some of the tips around, do I go NC without replying...I mean that in the sense that if I don't reply and just go NC does it come of as emotional or do I reply with something showing I am not fussed (BUT NOTHING MORE, i.e. no attempt at continuing the conversation or doing anything otherwise) and then going NC?
I wouldn't even reply back. She didn't apologize and she didn't give you a counter offer. She doesn't deserve a reply. Besides, if she really wanted to see you, she wouldn't care if she worked early the next day.