this girl i been having problems with who keeps flaking intentionally/unintentionally and subconsciously testing me is p1ssing me off. she's flaked on me twice now cos of work and according to rules if she doesn't counter offer then you next her. i stood my ground on tuesday and told her there's a 3 strike rule and she only has 2 cancellations no matter the reason then it's over. she already used up her 2.
by me saying this she came back to me pleading for me to see her tonight and i quizzed her on whether it was for definite and she gives me the whole yes yes.. blah blah. but i knew she'd probably flake again.
the prob is she confirms the date in the afternoon seems like everything is a go then cancels 3 hours later.. it's p1ssing me off! i think her excuse is genuine but her work keeps pulling these c0ckblock moves ruining my date plans. i should next her cos a flake is a flake. she calls me pleading to make it up to me next week or whenever i'm free.. i just woke up from a nap so i was groggy and not on form and brushed aside the fact she's flaked 3 times so forgot to stand my ground.. i DLV'd myself totally and was regretting it. i somehow agreed to meet her tomorrow night after i've gone out but i knew she'd probably pull the same sh1t again.
i dont think she was testing how needy i was but indirectly it's happened. i f'd up by calling her back interrogating her excuse cos i was getting fed up of her canceling.. and cos i told her i was free tonight as we pre-arranged i tried to get her to come meet me later than scheduled after she finished work.
anyway have i lost her? cos the extra calls and texts it took to do this made me look really desperate. she had really high interest level on our 1st date but i think it's over now.
by me saying this she came back to me pleading for me to see her tonight and i quizzed her on whether it was for definite and she gives me the whole yes yes.. blah blah. but i knew she'd probably flake again.
the prob is she confirms the date in the afternoon seems like everything is a go then cancels 3 hours later.. it's p1ssing me off! i think her excuse is genuine but her work keeps pulling these c0ckblock moves ruining my date plans. i should next her cos a flake is a flake. she calls me pleading to make it up to me next week or whenever i'm free.. i just woke up from a nap so i was groggy and not on form and brushed aside the fact she's flaked 3 times so forgot to stand my ground.. i DLV'd myself totally and was regretting it. i somehow agreed to meet her tomorrow night after i've gone out but i knew she'd probably pull the same sh1t again.
i dont think she was testing how needy i was but indirectly it's happened. i f'd up by calling her back interrogating her excuse cos i was getting fed up of her canceling.. and cos i told her i was free tonight as we pre-arranged i tried to get her to come meet me later than scheduled after she finished work.
anyway have i lost her? cos the extra calls and texts it took to do this made me look really desperate. she had really high interest level on our 1st date but i think it's over now.