"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, Rollo was right as his wisdom and knowledge is perfect on here. As I ****ed her hard she cried out crying yes yes daddy **** me hard. Does this mean she thinks I am her daddy now? Just playing lol!

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I interpret it as this;
She's a devout Christian and she thinks you are too, so you're her "Christian Brother"....... or..........
You're both Black and it was a sign of solidarity...........
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What the hell. So I give this woman of whom I did not know was married a sexual comment concerning her picture and this is what she writes back to me on Facebook. This lady is my Mom's PT how would you respond with what she wrote back to me. I just told her I understood and no more worries and then unfriended her. I swear my penis never got back to hard after her response. Personally I am thinking about cancelling my Mom's PT after this, I do have that option.

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Althought I appreciate the fact that u find me as an attractive lady, I am a Christian woman with a husband and daughter. I am o k. with u commenting on a pic etc. But please do not put any thing that u would not say to your sister or mother on there. I wll blame it on the wine. lol But I am not allowed to have any kind of "relationship" with a patient or family member, i could loose my license. So as a professional I am asking that all of your comments be put "at bay" please. thank you I appreciate your understanding.
 
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I think she's being perfectly reasonable. She even tried to inject a little humor to diffuse hard feelings (wine).

Sounds like you might have been hitting on someone who is a little too close to home (your mom's PT).

If her picture was overtly sexual I would definitely tell her that she should expect comments like that and perhaps she should change it, but barring that, I would just let it go. You know me... I'll call a woman out on her sh!t at the drop of a hat, but I just don't see anything wrong with what she said.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree Atom Smasher with you. Her telling me she was married that totally threw me but knew she had a daughter. She never gave any indications that she had a husband until my compliment on her picture.

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Atom Smasher said:
I think she's being perfectly reasonable. She even tried to inject a little humor to diffuse hard feelings (wine).

Sounds like you might have been hitting on someone who is a little too close to home (your mom's PT).

If her picture was overtly sexual I would definitely tell her that she should expect comments like that and perhaps she should change it, but barring that, I would just let it go. You know me... I'll call a woman out on her sh!t at the drop of a hat, but I just don't see anything wrong with what she said.
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Hey Powerlifter - this is Dating 101 my friend - everyone from D'Angelo downwards talks to this one.

NEVER bring up sex yourself in this kind of context - you should be telling her the picture makes her look like her Grandma! When she responds (although I doubt this one ever would have done so), "well if you don't like that one, I have far better shots!", you respond "I don't believe you". And you wait for the pics to arrive and escalate from there. If you don't want to play ****y/funny for whatever reason, cool, but just don't make sexual comments to near-strangers - it just comes off creepy.

Mature women are the ones to bring up sex by email/SMS, when their emotionally hooked and want to discuss it. Starting the talk yourself is a slippery slope to either offending her (as here), rushing her, or at worst emotionally cornering her -and when women feel cornered, they usually head straight for the door.

Sex should be mentioned LAST, and not by you. If you want to have those type of conversations with strangers, get on F@ckbook, IMO.
 
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Viagra4Soul, I agree bro. Shame on my AFC side for breaking the golden rule here. I was only figuring since she was 40 with a daughter it wouldn't matter. But then she tells me she is married. I have sense told her all the best with her husband and daughter though.

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Hey Powerlifter - this is Dating 101 my friend - everyone from D'Angelo downwards talks to this one.

NEVER bring up sex yourself in this kind of context - you should be telling her the picture makes her look like her Grandma! When she responds (although I doubt this one ever would have done so), "well if you don't like that one, I have far better shots!", you respond "I don't believe you". And you wait for the pics to arrive and escalate from there. If you don't want to play ****y/funny for whatever reason, cool, but just don't make sexual comments to near-strangers - it just comes off creepy.

Mature women are the ones to bring up sex by email/SMS, when their emotionally hooked and want to discuss it. Starting the talk yourself is a slippery slope to either offending her (as here), rushing her, or at worst emotionally cornering her -and when women feel cornered, they usually head straight for the door.

Sex should be mentioned LAST, and not by you. If you want to have those type of conversations with strangers, get on F@ckbook, IMO.
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For me calling them "sister" has been a foolproof way of sort of "putting them in the friendzone" for me. I'm not a woman i don't need the attention of the opposite sex to boost my ego. I am not in the business of leading women on that I don't intend on _____ I rather not hurt anybody's feelings and just make myself not available. I rather give them the "sister card" and let it hit their brains subconsciously or whatever that I have no interest in them as a lover.

I call women sisters that I don't like (specially any fatties or ugos that I may have to deal with at work) just to make sure they don't ever flirt with me and don't get that idea in their head. It's sort of a mosquito repellant.

That's what I do personally. I have no way of knowing if she called you brother because she was trying to put you in the friend zone. But i'll just say this. If she had any sexual interest in you whatsoever she would NOT be calling you a brother.

I'm guessing it was her inner feeling for you that got out rather than she doing it on purpose to push you away (as I have done). So basically she feels for you as a brother/friend which is worse than she calling you brother on purpose to push you away as a friendzone tactic women use.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks f283000, makes sense for sure. I am the same, I never want to hurt a womans if she has the hots for me. I will have to remember using sister the next time I come across one.

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For me calling them "sister" has been a foolproof way of sort of "putting them in the friendzone" for me. I'm not a woman i don't need the attention of the opposite sex to boost my ego. I am not in the business of leading women on that I don't intend on _____ I rather not hurt anybody's feelings and just make myself not available. I rather give them the "sister card" and let it hit their brains subconsciously or whatever that I have no interest in them as a lover.

I call women sisters that I don't like (specially any fatties or ugos that I may have to deal with at work) just to make sure they don't ever flirt with me and don't get that idea in their head. It's sort of a mosquito repellant.

That's what I do personally. I have no way of knowing if she called you brother because she was trying to put you in the friend zone. But i'll just say this. If she had any sexual interest in you whatsoever she would NOT be calling you a brother.

I'm guessing it was her inner feeling for you that got out rather than she doing it on purpose to push you away (as I have done). So basically she feels for you as a brother/friend which is worse than she calling you brother on purpose to push you away as a friendzone tactic women use.
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