Throughout the course of history the male species have traditionally purchased alcohol for the females. I suspect the primary reason for such a display of generosity is lack knowledge of how to seduce women. They would compensate by offering to pay for their attention instead of earning it.
The problem lies with expectations on both parts. Guy buys drink for girl for the purpose of getting her to like him and to a lessor degree, lowering her inhibitions through the consumption of alcohol. Some women are fully aware of this historical fact and use it to their advantage. They seek out certain guys who willingly finance their consumption of beverages for the evening and mysteriously vanish by the end of the night…… leaving the chump frustrated and wondering where she went.
Some women are a bit reluctant to accept drinks from guys as they sometimes feel obligated to entertain the dudes intentions. He bought me a drink so he must have a hidden agenda….only to women they know what you’re up to. Now flip the script for a moment, if a lady buys a man a drink, he automatically thinks he will be getting lucky that night. Some girls buy a guy a drink to counteract the obligation utilizing reciprocity. He bought me a drink, now let me return the favor so we’re even and there’s no obligation.
The majority of the time when a lady buys the gentleman a drink it’s a clear indication she is very interested in getting to know him on an intimate level. When a girl buys you a drink it shifts the power in your favor, you are the prize to win over and your social value increases dramatically. Here are but a few ways to get the dames to finance your beverages for an evening……and it’s about time.
1) HEY LADIES YOU BUY THE FIRST ROUND AND I'LL BUY THE SECOND........then when its your turn you take a washroom detour.
2) IT’S MY BIRTHDAY-this often works even when it's not your B-day!!
3) WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME A WOMAN BOUGHT A MAN A DRINK........just once I would like to find a cool chic that has a job, and is confident enough to purchase a drink for a guy and not think about sex......TIME TO START A NEW TRADITION.
4) YOU WOULDN'T NORMALLY BUY A PERFECT STRANGER A BEER..........SO first off thank you..........I am flattered that you think I am perfect and allow me to introduce myself so that I am no longer a stranger. Shall I call the bar tender over.
5)TRICKS- I BET A DRINK I CAN READ YOUR MIND.................pick a # between 1-4.............YOU CHOOSE 3!!!!!!!!!
6) GAMES-ROCK PAPER SISSORS FOR A DRINK.............OK go!!!!!!
7) MONKEY DANCE-WHAT DOES A GUY HAVE TO DO TO GET A DRINK AROUND HERE.........I will do anything.
8) MISPLACED WALLET-hey guess what I lost my wallet, I was hoping you could finance my evening........just until I get my debit card.........my friend went to get it.
The problem lies with expectations on both parts. Guy buys drink for girl for the purpose of getting her to like him and to a lessor degree, lowering her inhibitions through the consumption of alcohol. Some women are fully aware of this historical fact and use it to their advantage. They seek out certain guys who willingly finance their consumption of beverages for the evening and mysteriously vanish by the end of the night…… leaving the chump frustrated and wondering where she went.
Some women are a bit reluctant to accept drinks from guys as they sometimes feel obligated to entertain the dudes intentions. He bought me a drink so he must have a hidden agenda….only to women they know what you’re up to. Now flip the script for a moment, if a lady buys a man a drink, he automatically thinks he will be getting lucky that night. Some girls buy a guy a drink to counteract the obligation utilizing reciprocity. He bought me a drink, now let me return the favor so we’re even and there’s no obligation.
The majority of the time when a lady buys the gentleman a drink it’s a clear indication she is very interested in getting to know him on an intimate level. When a girl buys you a drink it shifts the power in your favor, you are the prize to win over and your social value increases dramatically. Here are but a few ways to get the dames to finance your beverages for an evening……and it’s about time.
1) HEY LADIES YOU BUY THE FIRST ROUND AND I'LL BUY THE SECOND........then when its your turn you take a washroom detour.
2) IT’S MY BIRTHDAY-this often works even when it's not your B-day!!
3) WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME A WOMAN BOUGHT A MAN A DRINK........just once I would like to find a cool chic that has a job, and is confident enough to purchase a drink for a guy and not think about sex......TIME TO START A NEW TRADITION.
4) YOU WOULDN'T NORMALLY BUY A PERFECT STRANGER A BEER..........SO first off thank you..........I am flattered that you think I am perfect and allow me to introduce myself so that I am no longer a stranger. Shall I call the bar tender over.
5)TRICKS- I BET A DRINK I CAN READ YOUR MIND.................pick a # between 1-4.............YOU CHOOSE 3!!!!!!!!!
6) GAMES-ROCK PAPER SISSORS FOR A DRINK.............OK go!!!!!!
7) MONKEY DANCE-WHAT DOES A GUY HAVE TO DO TO GET A DRINK AROUND HERE.........I will do anything.
8) MISPLACED WALLET-hey guess what I lost my wallet, I was hoping you could finance my evening........just until I get my debit card.........my friend went to get it.