"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She broke up with me before our first date!

Brian Drake

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I met Karen through a friend and invited her to my house warming party where I got her number. This past Tuesday I called and asked her out; she said yes; we made our plans and she gave me her address. Sounds good, right?

Wednesday she left me a voice mail cancelling the date. The message was two minutes long and she said that while her first impression of me was that I was a "fun guy" that we were in "different places" and that I seemed to like to drink and party too much and she couldn't handle that and thought we were incompatible so she had to cancel the date. She spoke for two minutes and babbled a lot. It was like she was breaking up with me....but before we even went out!

This is one for the record books, I'm sure.

But we did not fret; I made my date with Karen for tonight (Friday) and already had another date scheduled for Thursday, which went well.

Some will, some won't, so what? So who's next?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TonyBaloney

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Good post Brian.

I like your end statement ~ I think a few of these naval gazing ****s should take heed that some girls just bottle out psychologically from day 1 (or - day
1 in your case ;)

I took a girl out 17 years my junior last week -my radar was on and knew that would be the first and last time we met even though the date went well - cost me 60 pounds mind, but some you win, some you lose ;)

Good luck Brian - May your next relationship be more fruitful ;)
 

Tiguere

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yea. if i were you ill call her and seduce her into a first date. you dont have anything to lose.
 
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