"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She broke up with me before our first date!

Brian Drake

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I met Karen through a friend and invited her to my house warming party where I got her number. This past Tuesday I called and asked her out; she said yes; we made our plans and she gave me her address. Sounds good, right?

Wednesday she left me a voice mail cancelling the date. The message was two minutes long and she said that while her first impression of me was that I was a "fun guy" that we were in "different places" and that I seemed to like to drink and party too much and she couldn't handle that and thought we were incompatible so she had to cancel the date. She spoke for two minutes and babbled a lot. It was like she was breaking up with me....but before we even went out!

This is one for the record books, I'm sure.

But we did not fret; I made my date with Karen for tonight (Friday) and already had another date scheduled for Thursday, which went well.

Some will, some won't, so what? So who's next?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TonyBaloney

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Good post Brian.

I like your end statement ~ I think a few of these naval gazing ****s should take heed that some girls just bottle out psychologically from day 1 (or - day
1 in your case ;)

I took a girl out 17 years my junior last week -my radar was on and knew that would be the first and last time we met even though the date went well - cost me 60 pounds mind, but some you win, some you lose ;)

Good luck Brian - May your next relationship be more fruitful ;)
 

Tiguere

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yea. if i were you ill call her and seduce her into a first date. you dont have anything to lose.
 
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