"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She broke up and now her friend is stalking my Instagram

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Thats hilarious.

The day she broke up (mentioned in my last post) I blocked her and just moved on.

So I went out to a rock pub, posted a story and her friend visualized. Today I went to a beach, posted some stories about, and her friend visualized again. She doesnt follow me, but my profile is public.

Why she is doing that? Did she expected that I would go after her begging to have her back? And now her friend is updating her about my life? Lol

The fact is that, her act was so stupid that I dont even felt that sad with that broke up. I have some decency and self-respect.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She’s creeping you through her friend. It’s a chick thing. Get a hot girl (preferably hotter than her) to sit on your lap on the beach, snap a pic & post

“Great fun with great friends”

She’s watching so might as well rub the salt in the wound and give her a show my dear.

She gets a front row seat.

Most women have such an overinflated sense of value they don’t realize how replaceable beauty and boobs and a fine ass are. Show her (and remind yourself while you’re at it) ;)
 

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Quit lying to yourself, you did not move on. If you did? you would've give half a s**t about what her friend is doing.
I didnt know you could read minds.

But got your point man.
 

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She’s creeping you through her friend. It’s a chick thing. Get a hot girl (preferably hotter than her) to sit on your lap on the beach, snap a pic & post

“Great fun with great friends”

She’s watching so might as well rub the salt in the wound and give her a show my dear.

She gets a front row seat.

Most women have such an overinflated sense of value they don’t realize how replaceable beauty and boobs and a fine ass are. Show her (and remind yourself while you’re at it) ;)
I think she expected me to run after her.

Anyways, my count is on 4 girls right now here. This is being the craziest and best travel I ever had.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good! Be careful and wrap your junk. No need for little black lambs in 9 months!
 

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She’s creeping you through her friend. It’s a chick thing. Get a hot girl (preferably hotter than her) to sit on your lap on the beach, snap a pic & post
Lol, good advice. I've made it a point to stay off of social media, but sometimes I think I don't know what I'm missing.
 
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