"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She broke up and now her friend is stalking my Instagram

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Thats hilarious.

The day she broke up (mentioned in my last post) I blocked her and just moved on.

So I went out to a rock pub, posted a story and her friend visualized. Today I went to a beach, posted some stories about, and her friend visualized again. She doesnt follow me, but my profile is public.

Why she is doing that? Did she expected that I would go after her begging to have her back? And now her friend is updating her about my life? Lol

The fact is that, her act was so stupid that I dont even felt that sad with that broke up. I have some decency and self-respect.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She’s creeping you through her friend. It’s a chick thing. Get a hot girl (preferably hotter than her) to sit on your lap on the beach, snap a pic & post

“Great fun with great friends”

She’s watching so might as well rub the salt in the wound and give her a show my dear.

She gets a front row seat.

Most women have such an overinflated sense of value they don’t realize how replaceable beauty and boobs and a fine ass are. Show her (and remind yourself while you’re at it) ;)
 

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Quit lying to yourself, you did not move on. If you did? you would've give half a s**t about what her friend is doing.
I didnt know you could read minds.

But got your point man.
 

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She’s creeping you through her friend. It’s a chick thing. Get a hot girl (preferably hotter than her) to sit on your lap on the beach, snap a pic & post

“Great fun with great friends”

She’s watching so might as well rub the salt in the wound and give her a show my dear.

She gets a front row seat.

Most women have such an overinflated sense of value they don’t realize how replaceable beauty and boobs and a fine ass are. Show her (and remind yourself while you’re at it) ;)
I think she expected me to run after her.

Anyways, my count is on 4 girls right now here. This is being the craziest and best travel I ever had.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good! Be careful and wrap your junk. No need for little black lambs in 9 months!
 

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She’s creeping you through her friend. It’s a chick thing. Get a hot girl (preferably hotter than her) to sit on your lap on the beach, snap a pic & post
Lol, good advice. I've made it a point to stay off of social media, but sometimes I think I don't know what I'm missing.
 
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