She broke no-contact but I kept it for a week anyway before replying

[Who Dares Win]

Long story short I spare you the details:

HB9 played hard to get like taking hours to reply to text and disappearing toward the end of the text conversations, attempt to meet lead to nowhere so I simply deleted her number and moved on.
In past we made out a couple of times during two semi-dates and played with her boobs while she stroked my c0ck lightly.

We were supposed to meet on friday 31 but the last message I got from her was that she had no lift to come to city center, GUT beeped after 2 meeting attemprs failed and went no contact.

The following monday she text me asking why I wasnt replying to her on sat night (which I call bvllsh1t since got no alert from cellphone and there was field in the club).

I tought she was an other girl (number was deleted just like many dozen before hers) and replied "you got the wrong number, bye"

She then dropped me an other couple of messages that day which I ignored, then silence for two days till she sent me a message on fb which I ignored as well.

An other text the following day which I ignored, then I tought that maybe I was still game on and sent her a text to say that I was fine and that I would have called later, she then asked why I was not replying and I changed topic and said I would have called back.

Now we sent each other some text yesterday and today and she answer very quick and contribute to the communication, my gut tells me she is on for a date now but Im not sure how to do it, if keeping it cold or show some warm.

Should I plan it in advance and tell her which day to keep free or should I simply call her few hours before and see if she is free?
Im not in the mood of flaking or some other bvllsh1t of course.

Any suggestion in general or feedback?

 

[BeDJ]

Great powerplay!

I would call and ask her if she is free in a few hours. If not, see if she reschedules.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Come on gentlemen I cant believe nobody else has nothing to say about it..

For those too lazy to read more than 5 lines, it hb9 who broke NC and me making her swet before talking back..now in doubt

 

[Cremasta]

I would stop organising activities around her schedule.

Set up a night out with a bunch of friends, then let her know where you're going to be and that she'd be welcome to come along. If she makes the effort to get there and meet you, turn on the charm.

 

[BadNews]

I like Cremasta's idea. I would maybe combine it with yet ANOTHER attempt at a 1-1 date. Ask her out (give her atleast a couple days notice, 3 hours is too short notice for most people these days), if she can't make it AGAIN, then plan to go out with your buddies a couple days after the proposed date and invite her to meet up with you guys. After that I would say the ball is completely in her court to ask you out or reschedule if she can't make either.