"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She blushed... could that be a bad thing?

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I know it's gonna be hard to get a serious answer on this one so I'll get straight to the point...

A girl blushes because you like her... IE...

You're both in the same room, and someone hints at an attraction between the two of you...

so she leaves the room blushing noticably...

From past experience, would you say she's embarrassed at the fact that I like her... or...

that she absolutely adores me? :cheer:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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To be honest with you there's no way to tell.

1. A girl will blush if someone suggests they like you and they don't

2. A girl will blush if someone suggests they like you and they do

It's embarrasing either way.

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
G-Man, do you post on HHC? I guess so, seeing how you're from the UK and all... I've seen you on there...
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What's HHC stand for?
 
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Hip Hop Central... you emcee, right? Anyway, they were more saying I like HER, it didn't have much to do with her, aside from the fact that I think she's adorable(10/10 by the way)...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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G-Man UK

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Hip Hop Central... you emcee, right? Anyway, they were more saying I like HER, it didn't have much to do with her, aside from the fact that I think she's adorable(10/10 by the way)...
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Nah don't post on on there m8 never have, must be someone else with same name.

It's quite possible she likes you the way you describe it, I suggest you get flirting with her and try some moves.

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I've posted on alot of different rap boards... I thought it was HHC, might have been Urban Flows or something but someone registered as G-Man, I only remember him cause he had a really crappy sig anyway. :D

Yeah, she might like me... the only problem is, this is the same girl from the last post:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80540

{sigh}

decisions, decisions...
 
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Dude, if this chick is hot, it is time to get your GAME ON! As long as you want her too
 
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