lamobatsman
Senior Don Juan
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fINAlly spoke to this girl and now shes blocked me haha!!
wtf?!
wtf?!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She Blocked Me Wtf?!
- Thread starter lamobatsman
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
The current quality of sosuave posts.
alpha_ash
Senior Don Juan
The OP is a ****ing idiot. He keeps posting about the same girl and refuses to accept any advice we give him. Please ban this incorrigible AFC!
****ing idiot would have had this girl or better yet, many others if he put our advice into practice. OP you are ****ing pathetic, in fact you are possibly psychotic. Get yourself checked out.
(We all know he needs this post to set him straight.)
****ing idiot would have had this girl or better yet, many others if he put our advice into practice. OP you are ****ing pathetic, in fact you are possibly psychotic. Get yourself checked out.
(We all know he needs this post to set him straight.)