"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She Bit Me

Oni

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Well, i have never experienced this before but when i was playing around with this girl (i ended up laying on top of her) she playfully bit me so i will let her up. I mean, this is the girl whom i used to be friends with and had lately stopped seeing or talking with her. Today was the first day we hung out together with a group of friends and she pulled out something like that. It's amazing what you can get girls to do when you take away a little attention from them. Anyway, i'm still astounded that she bit me. Not like it hurts or anything but it surprised me. Any takers on this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fash

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I remember seeing something on TV once about how sexual and primative biting is and how strongly it portrays affection.

I bite chicks all the time (without it sounding too weird). Places to bite are the back of their necks, innher thighs, shoulders, and palms of their hands. Believe me boys, soon her knickers will fly off!

Looks like the lack of attention has done the trick my man! now go get what's yours!
 

Oni

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Yea, I try to not give her a lot of attention. She hangs out wiht my group and they go out a lot but i always skip out because i dont want to always be there.
 

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As long as she doesn't draw blood, and you don't deck her, it's good.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Weak_Game

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i bite there ear off when we get into a tight hold/hug then i spit it out and its fuking on
 

Oni

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IOI?

Haha thanks for the words of encouragement guys, it boost my confidence a lot. I know that a guy who hangs out in our group has a thing for her but im not even worried, the guy goes nearly everywhere with her. IMO when a guy goes shopping with a girl and bunch of friends, it's over. But then again she is only a "potential." Oh well enough story telling, as the previous post stated.... SARGE ON :D
 

Paintballguy

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This girl I've been seeing likes to bite me... Its not a bad thing at all, just a sign of interest on her part.

I like to bite the back of girl's neck and their ears, drives em nuts.
 

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I like to bite guys i'm interested in too ;) Good way to flirt. Good Sign ;) Keep it up!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oni

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thanks

well today we were at the beach and when teh day was over she'd ask for a piggy-back ride from me. I can definitely tell she has an interest, but too bad right now i have zero commitment to girls. Oh well :cheer:
 
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